It stinks, it's hard work, it's gross, but my uncle is the happiest fucker I know.
Are you sure?
What does happiness mean in this case. Does it mean never complaining and always trying to see the best in every situation, or does it mean living a life you are proud of?
They perceive everything as a slight against them, because of being Trans or whatever. But it is perfectly possible to be trans, dress like a normal fucking person (per business typical dresscode) and just work the job to the best of your ability without everything around you having to cater to your trans-ness.
Firstly, try it.
Go out and try it. See how far you get. See how long it takes you to encounter hostility, or violence, or discrimination, because it won't be long. I know you're not going to actually try and do it because you're not actually capable. You're not strong enough to even pretend to live our lives, you and I know you'd break like a twig.
Secondly. No. That sounds shit. Why the hell would I or anyone spend our lives caring about what some cishet person thinks. If I had the ability to care about that, I'd literally have killed myself years ago.
Being trans, or queer, means you've already failed in the eyes of heterosexual society, it means you had to develop a sense of identity that was distinctfrom what everyone else thought of you just as a means to survive. It means you have to really think about what it means to live a good life, because you were never going to have what other people considered a good life.
That's why a lot of queer people end up in art, or creative industries because these are places where you get to be a little more of an individual and where you get to express yourself rather than constantly having to worry about being a "normal fucking person." Because maybe.. and I can't wait to watch your little heterosexual brain try to wrap itself around this, being a "normal fucking person" can actually be really miserable, and maybe for some people it's worth not having job security or a good salary if it means not having to constantly worry about whether you're being adequately normal. Maybe tying your entire identity to a job that requires you to be a "normal fucking person" is just a terrible idea when society has already decided that you're not.
Here's a song that might be relevant.
Not saying that discrimination doesn't exist in this regard, but I can't help but point out that if Sterling showed up to a job interview with my company wearing a rainbow striped shirt, big red sunglass, and an unkempt wig, I would immediately not be hiring them. Because how you present yourself matters, and even if you are capable of the job if you come across as a flamboyant nutter who's presence will likely cause disruption in the office then you aren't getting the job. Be a grown adult make yourself presentable, and not like you come across as a fucking problem.
So, James Stephanie's persona on yotube, and especially on the Jimquisition, is a persona. They've always been incredibly explicit about that. It's not a real person, it's an act or pretence that a real person is putting on that is somewhat authentic but also exaggerated. In short, it's drag. It's always been drag, which is why you don't understand it because cishets don't know what drag is. Regardless, someone showing up to an interview would put on a different persona in order to appear professional. This idea that queer people are unprofessional or disruptive because queer people sometimes use a flamboyant persona for entertainment or to communicate among themselves is actually really queerphobic. It's kind of like assuming that black people are disruptive and unprofessional because they must always talk in AAVE. Just because you don't know how to code switch, don't assume everyone else is as socially incompetent as you.
Secondly if your standard of professionalism requires gender conformity, for example not wearing a wig, then you're kind of a dick. Even binary transwomen don't suddenly flip into looking like Laverne Cox one day. There's going to be times when someone isn't perfectly passing, and if you can't deal with that, you're not "professional", you're just a professional asshole. If your workplace genuinely can't accommodate someone who is doing their best to meet your standards (leaving aside the question of whether your standards should even matter) then it's not a fit place for humans to work at all.
Noone deserves to have to work for some shitty little office tyrant who uses their position to target trans people because they're scared having trans people in their place of work might be disruptive. Grow the fuck up.