The Last of Us 2 has been defended by feminists and has all manner of horrible crap happen to the two main female leads. Jessica Jones and Supergirl are also beloved by modern feminists and went through all kinds of crap in their shows. There are loads of stories feminists love that deal with women going through abuse or something terrible in general.
Because "consistency be damned gotta own dem Gamers™"
It shows the hollowness of wokeness.
Black female character brutally beaten to death during gameplay around the time BLM was really starting up? Yeh totally fine no trouble.
A Ninja story about defending your homeland from invaders? "IMPERALIST RIGHT WING EVIL PROPERGANDA!!!!!"
It's Proof if you signal hard enough the woke lot will happily accept it. I watched Supergirl and yes Season 1 had some cringey moments but they also had Cat Grant to sort of balance things out a bit and bring some level of sanity too to sort of almost mock the more extreme activist ideas like calling out the idea "What's wrong with girl in the name Supergirl I'm a girl still just an older and wiser one" When it moved to the CW they changed her Sister Alex to being a Lesbian (in Season 1 she was shown to have a romantic Interest in Maxwell Lord but in season two the CW threw all that out the window and made her lesbian (not Bi just lesbian exclusively).
Most of the stuff I saw them put supergirl through was emotional termoil rather than physical Admittedly I gave up watching at the end of the Invasion and Cademus arcs so I dunno what they did around the time Braniac 5 came in.
The weird reason for being ok with some stuff and not others is there's two modes for women seemingly allowed. Absolute victim who rises above it eventually (Jessica Jones) or Complete badass who never faces any struggles really (Rey, Captain Marvel etc....)
Then you look at Stargirl which so far none of the woke lot are hollering about and it really does seem like a far better balance like she gets her ass kicked so badly the next episode is like 30 minutes of her in the hospital then at home recovering before ending up rushing off to fight with her hands still bandaged up.
It's about signalling in the end is all it's why there was no real woke love for Killjoys but then they were all over how great Vagrant Queen was. They're very similar shows the different was Killjoys didn't overtly market to said crowd.