Trying really, really ,really hard not to be sexists here, but as someone who enjoys standup comedy, it's hard to find a female standup comic I consistently enjoy. I've tried several, and I can only make it about through maybe 15-20 minutes before deciding it's not getting any better. I actually just finished Taylor Tomlinson's latest standup ("finished" being a feat for me,) and only because it was the exception wherein she didn't immediately get into the signature raunch most female comedians defer to for cheap laughs.
I'm not that guy who says women can't be funny; comedy isn't qualified along gender lines; a funny joke is a funny joke. But so many female comedians fall back on graphic sex jokes and vulgarity for vulgarity's sake that it just gets tiresome and ugly. I'm not generalizing; I don't particularly like male comedians who do the same thing, but their sets tend to touch upon enough other subjects that I can power through. But these female comedians seem to think they're leveling the playing field by being as raunchy as the guys, and they simply don't have to. The first half of Tomlinson's set was a taking down of her religious upbringing, and it's really good, but the latter half, she starts in on being bisexual, preferring sex with women, sucking dick, and I just tuned out, and the hour fell apart for me. Not saying women shouldn't be edgy by virtue of being women; I just wish so many of them wouldn't hang their identity on it.
I think of comedians like Tig Notaro, Ellen DeGeneres, Maria Bamford, etc.; they are funny, but they rarely open with, use, let alone lean entirely on being gross and offensive. Funny is funny when it's clever, not because it's nasty absurdity coming out of a woman's mouth.