Robert Rath said:
boonie hat, which he got from swapping equipment with the Aussies
Just a piece of trivia, if the hat's Aussie kit then it's a giggle hat not a boonie hat. No, I don't know why... I expect because of how stupid a lot of Diggers (Aussie troops) originally thought they looked when they were first issued (basically being an Army green version of a hat common to beaches at the time).
If your Dad was swapping kit with Diggers then he either worked with them enough to get their respect or he had some really sweet kit the Diggers wanted. Possibly both... and if he was LRRPing, did you check to see if he had any patches or badges featuring a winged fairbairn combat knife?
Speaking of Diggers, if you haven't seen it, check out The Odd Angry Shot (1979). Aussie movie about the typical Digger experience in Vietnam and most of the vets I've known over the years say it's pretty accurate.
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I think the hardest part of using the experience and experiences of real service personnel is you'd either have to be aiming at hardcore simulation gamers or you'd have to compromise and compress the intervals between action unless you're looking at just a single battle (and even then if it's a big enough battle) otherwise you'll have to include way too much hurry-up-and-wait time.
One thing I'd love to see done in a game is something akin the the USMC landings in Somalia... forced to do a full combat landing at night just so the beach full of tv crews could film it... Apparently what a full combat load weighs is nothing compared to a full combat load that's soaking wet, and the poor bastards couldn't even ***** about it properly because half the world's media was recording them. Amusingly, some of the marines claim to have not even been briefed on the media presence and basically tumbled onto the shore wondering what the fuck was going on.
Alternatively, just to fuck with people, I'd have the first mission play like normal but when it ends, pull back and have it as some soldier playing a game on a console to kill time on base. All the combat in the game takes place as the character playing a video game and occasionally have the character on his mates bitching over the top of the game about the crap they've been doing... although that might be a bit meta for a lot of people.
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As an aside, around 10 years back a mate of mine had been blogging about his experiences as a sniper in Somalia when, out of the fucking blue, he gets emails from a journalist saying some of the events he wrote about being war crimes. About a week after that all started he gets hit up by some pricks from the Federal Attorney-General's department demanding that he take down all the entries about his deployment with the Australian Army in Somalia and refuse to comment on any queries about his writing or his experiences. Potential criminal charges were muttered about... and this was 10 years after he'd left the army and roughly 12 years after he'd been deployed in Somalia.
Thing being, the events in question were well within the operational RoE... the journalist was a cockhead but the government at the time didn't want any sniff of military malfeasance anywhere.