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It felt more like work than did the job search, because unlike a job search, videogames are actually rewarding.
This is actually the part we should all be scared of.
When playing any game, your objectives are clear. More than that, the reward for reaching that objective is already known before the grind or trip even starts.
WoW has been used for an example a few times already, so I'll just go with that;
When you start a quest the game tells you what the reward is. Even if you have to grind a million identical spiders, you'll do it, only because you KNOW that there will be a reward in the end, and it's a good one too.
At work, or any other real life situation, you're pretty much guessing what results action X will have for situation Y.
You can come in an hour early and work late every single day for half a year, never calling in sick, never complaining. But when your boss comes up to you for a chat, you're never sure whether you're going to receive praise for your effort, or getting scolded for your taxing routine resulting in you looking like a zombie.
You can obviously tell that your girlfriend/wife prefers a diamond ring over a slap in the face, but option A doesn't guarantee that she'll never dislike or leave you.
Games are comforting that way, guaranteed achievement lies ahead, however tedious or repetitive the road to your final goal might be. Real life doesn't show you an XP bar or achievement progress.
Often, I find myself asking myself "what's in it for me, what can I get out of this?" and making profitable deals out of things I do.
Of course this is a good deal for me, it means I secure rewards for effort put into things rather than going home empty-handed at the end of a hard day's work.
It also means that there might be a day when that security is what is needed before any action is even taken.
A job search can prove fruitless, making a pass at someone cute may leave you ashamed, applying for a promotion or a raise might turn your good reputation into "he wants something from us"
So why even bother?