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Can you ever really trust a girl who lies about her age?
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Can you ever really trust a girl who lies about her age?
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This. To Suckered By Sweet Sixteen, I had a situation almost exactly like yours, except she was two years younger instead of three. A lot of it boils down to the age of consent in your state/her state if she lives in a different state, and if you've had talks about sex with her and having sex with her and whatnot, because even talking about having sex with her is something that the courts can get you for.GrandmaFunk said:i'd be concerned about the lying but it's totally fine for a 20yo to go on dates with a 17yo
just because you can't get physical with her is no reason to avoid interacting together in person.
She lied and had to be caught on it. Who knows what else she was lying about...razer17 said:For number, the girl is only 3 years younger. That really ain't that much. In most places in the world you'd be allowed to be with her anyway (by which I don't mean you should do anything, because you should obey the laws of your country. Just saying)
Afraid I'd have to agree here. Is she likely to change in the next few years? Of course, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't be willing to give her a chance regardless. If you're someone who's already waited this long, I don't see any problem in waiting longer. Perhaps that's just because I've been in a long-term relationship with someone before and can understand how close you can be to someone who you've never 'met'.Hagi said:Wouldn't be so direct at the first guy.
17 and 20 ain't that bad. That's only 3 years. There's plenty of 17 year olds acting more mature then any number of 20 year olds.
As for her lying about her age, she's 16-17. She's at the point where everyone expects her to act like she's 18 but nobody wants to treat her like she's 18. I honestly can't blame her for adding a single year. Sure it's not the most mature thing ever but it's not like 20 is THAT mature.
Guess how many 20 year olds are lying about being 21? I'd probably go as far as saying that it's more then the amount of 16 year old lying about being 17.
I'd say give her a chance. Be wary about it, but I don't see a reason to just chuck it all out right now.
As for the second guy, can't say much that hasn't already been said.