FargoDog said:
Wow.. Is it just me or does 'Ben' kind off come of like a bit of a dick in this article?
I worked retail for years. This is the average customer he's describing. They tend to get much worse. The truly nice and respectful customer, whom shows a glimmer of intelligence and understanding, is a rare find indeed. We treasure each and every one of you we find.
I'm not saying everybody is rude when it comes to shopping/haggling/trading, but I have been spit on by more people than I have have been treated kindly and fairly by. Sad thing is, I'm very polite and understanding when it comes to customer service, and have been told many times I'm too nice. It had landed me as employee of the month a few times, but never made dealing with the general populace any easier.
Working retail takes a toll on you. People's rudeness and self-absorbed selfishness can erode away most of what is nice and kind about you, leaving behind an etched bedrock of apathy and bitterness. Needless to say, I am not the"bouncing little ball of sunshine" I used to be. (an actual descriptor given me by co-workers)
Honestly, I can connect with him. I'm not saying I agree with everything he describes, but I can fully understand where he's coming from.