As an inhabitant of a Scandinavian country who's spent most of his life prominently with American media (comic books, games, tv shows, movies etc.) there occasionally comes a time when I just need some insider's perspective to how things really are. One of these popped up on my mind (again) after seeing Kick-Ass 2, the other just today while watching "Penn & Teller's Bullshit!".
The first one, which I'm sure many people outside of the US have thought about a lot as well, is: How much is real American high school life like how it's portrayed in entertainment? I asked about this from an exchange student who'd been there years ago, but her experience clearly didn't match the stereotype. But considering how much and how bitterly MovieBob, for example, has ranted on his high school experiences, I know it can't all be just exaggeration and stereotypes.
So, just as a person from a different culture, how "realistic" is the depiction of high school in American entertainment? How common are the mean girls clicks? Do nerds really get stuffed into lockers? Is there really that much competition to be quarterback (or whoever the hell is the lead player, I don't know shit about American footb... sorry, handegg)? Do proms really kick up that much drama? I really want to know.
The other one I have to ask about just because I'm so completely baffled by it. And that's self-esteem coaching.
The whole time watching the episode I had my jaw on the floor. I'd heard of it before, but only now did I realize what kind of stuff it was. This is real? People really pay money for that? A guy is actually touring America, doing cheap magic tricks while telling kids that they're "special", and actually making them yell "I'm number 1!"???????? Just how big is this business? Do you know any people who buy into this stuff?
It actually brought back memories from Lost, in which many characters were told that they're special, that they're unique and important. I always thought of it as a part of the show's themes of destiny and predetermined fate, but that episode really made me look at it from a different perspective. What if it wasn't about fate, what if the show was really telling its audience that this is how they should think about themselves? The thought that parents actively tell their kids that they're one of a kind and that they're bound to be all-important to the world is quite harrowing. I wonder, if that fad doesn't blow over soon, what kind of people are they going to grow up to be?
Anyway, enough rambling. Just wanted to know. Thoughts on either or both of these?
The first one, which I'm sure many people outside of the US have thought about a lot as well, is: How much is real American high school life like how it's portrayed in entertainment? I asked about this from an exchange student who'd been there years ago, but her experience clearly didn't match the stereotype. But considering how much and how bitterly MovieBob, for example, has ranted on his high school experiences, I know it can't all be just exaggeration and stereotypes.
So, just as a person from a different culture, how "realistic" is the depiction of high school in American entertainment? How common are the mean girls clicks? Do nerds really get stuffed into lockers? Is there really that much competition to be quarterback (or whoever the hell is the lead player, I don't know shit about American footb... sorry, handegg)? Do proms really kick up that much drama? I really want to know.
The other one I have to ask about just because I'm so completely baffled by it. And that's self-esteem coaching.
It actually brought back memories from Lost, in which many characters were told that they're special, that they're unique and important. I always thought of it as a part of the show's themes of destiny and predetermined fate, but that episode really made me look at it from a different perspective. What if it wasn't about fate, what if the show was really telling its audience that this is how they should think about themselves? The thought that parents actively tell their kids that they're one of a kind and that they're bound to be all-important to the world is quite harrowing. I wonder, if that fad doesn't blow over soon, what kind of people are they going to grow up to be?
Anyway, enough rambling. Just wanted to know. Thoughts on either or both of these?