Okay, so "zero force" is going too far, and excessive force, as the name implies, is also going too far.
Where's the right balance? I don't think there's ever going to be one.
The moment force is used, it can quickly go from a struggle to someone ending up dead. Either the suspect pulls out a concealed weapon or goes for an officer's gun, and someone gets pumped full of holes.
That guy reached in his car? Pumped full of holes.
A guy stole an officer's taser and fired it a them? Pumped full of holes.
Officers try to talk a guy out of his car for seven minutes, before escalating to taser and pepper spray? Suspect pulled out a gun and pumped the officers full of holes.
People riot about police brutality even when the officers were doing everything right. I'm not sure there's anything they can do that would be considered a winning move, hence this thread.