erttheking said:
No problem, it's interesting to hear what creators have to say too
5. I elaborated on this in another post. Basically, I totally understand that not everyone sees this the same way I do, it's just a case of these being my personal gripes and preferences. A lot of it comes down to me identifying with "masculine" characters - I've always been "masculine" in personality myself, but I'm also completely happy with myself as a woman and definitely don't want to actually
be a man. My male friends always used to joke that I was the "manliest" of all of us, and I guess that's actually kind of true (my friends aren't the most macho bunch). I also write, and while I do love writing "masculine" women, and I definitely sympathise with the comfort zone thing, I do try to include a variety of characters (male and female) across the feminine-masculine spectrum in my writing.
My main issue is that I
really hate the idea of personality traits being directly related to gender. I don't believe they are (I'm part of the "gender is a social construct" crowd, but I freely admit that that's an extreme view).
6. I'd have no problem with that at all. I'm not against impractical and/or sexy outfits so long as they're consistent with the rest of the setting, ie it's not a case of all the male space marines wearing full-body power armour while the female ones swan about in catsuits and high heels (exaggerated example, but you get the point).
7. I've seen the same picture, and yeah it's incredibly disheartening. I'm always completely horrified when this trope rears its ugly head because it feels like something that just shouldn't exist in this day and age, yet distressing numbers of people seem to have no issue with it. The absolute worst part is that it's genuinely dangerous and irresponsible to write this sort of thing off as just some fantasy. "Corrective" rape of lesbians by guys who actually subscribe to this way of thinking is a very real thing, unfortunately.