I'm not the only person she would lose if she had to leave her fatherbrighteyesblackenedlungs said:
her real mom died a long time ago
Canada
Yes I would take a bullet for her
Dont know what to do
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her real mom died a long time ago
Canada
Yes I would take a bullet for her
To make her feel better: Just stay with her a lot.
So she go's with dear old dad: Tell her to stand up for herself and just go christian bale on her mom.
Or YOU could just jave a personal chat with the mother explaining your motives and that you really love your girlfriend and things like that.
So she go's with dear old dad: Tell her to stand up for herself and just go christian bale on her mom.
Or YOU could just jave a personal chat with the mother explaining your motives and that you really love your girlfriend and things like that.
alright, listen to me now. Leave it alone. Dont interfere. If the father did meth the court might not hold the girls testamony to a high standard(she is a teen she probably does drugs herself, the father could end up supplying, eg: that sorta shit) If she can't stand up for herself then she IS SCREWED! This is the kinda thing that people have to do for themselves. Also, really ask why she doesnt like the step mum. Really grill her about it. Because maybe she doesnt actually hate the step mum, shes just afraid of the concept of being away from her father. Trust me i have gone through stuff exactly like this. Even now my mother and her current husband are going to divorce soon if all keeps going as it is. Also realize the courts ARE prejudice. They have stereotypes and they have to prove them wrong. If you dont know the family and the real issues you will be of no help. You will not factor into this at all if the courts/ system finds you irrelevant. The BEST thing YOU can do right now, is help her realize her feelings, and try to get her to stand up for herself DO NOT YELL AT HER! just act as if you expect nothing but the best and if she choses to go you HAVE to be ok with it. You cant just say it you have to actually be ok with her leaving, if she pulls the whole "don't you love me?*sob sob sob*" thing become the supersensitive "of course i do honey but i also respect your opinions and if you want to go, its okay" guy. I will leave the continuing of the relationship if she moves up to you.
Thats all.
i should write a book...
Thats all.
i should write a book...
LeonHellsvite said:
alright, listen to me now. Leave it alone. Dont interfere. If the father did meth the court might not hold the girls testamony to a high standard(she is a teen she probably does drugs herself, the father could end up supplying, eg: that sorta shit) If she can't stand up for herself then she IS SCREWED! This is the kinda thing that people have to do for themselves. Also, really ask why she doesnt like the step mum. Really grill her about it. Because maybe she doesnt actually hate the step mum, shes just afraid of the concept of being away from her father. Trust me i have gone through stuff exactly like this. Even now my mother and her current husband are going to divorce soon if all keeps going as it is. Also realize the courts ARE prejudice. They have stereotypes and they have to prove them wrong. If you dont know the family and the real issues you will be of no help. You will not factor into this at all if the courts/ system finds you irrelevant. The BEST thing YOU can do right now, is help her realize her feelings, and try to get her to stand up for herself DO NOT YELL AT HER! just act as if you expect nothing but the best and if she choses to go you HAVE to be ok with it. You cant just say it you have to actually be ok with her leaving, if she pulls the whole "don't you love me?*sob sob sob*" thing become the supersensitive "of course i do honey but i also respect your opinions and if you want to go, its okay" guy. I will leave the continuing of the relationship if she moves up to you.LeonHellsvite said:
Thats all.
i should write a book...
Ps: where in Canada do you live? The court systems diffr.
alberta and she doesn't do drugs i know she doesn't she has an adamant hatred towards them shes not the kind of girl that would do the crying do you love me thing, she was afraid of losing me because i got her an ipod touch for her birthday and she couldnt repay me, she never even lets me pay for her she hates that kind of boyfriend must pay thing (i dont care i have more money than her but w/e i dont argue) she wouldnt leave the city and her school is across the street from mine (mines a high school hers is jr.high till next year) but her mom doesnt know where i go to school if she found out chances are she would transfer her, she wants to speak up but she cant do it she couldnt even tell a boy she hated to leave her alone (he was a womanising pervert who was coming on to her i kid you not.. sadly i had to meet the guy and he is worse than she said) but like i if i was able to at least be with her she might be able to speak up she says she is more confident with me around her
I'm a little confused, actually. Unless something weird is going on in this family (like the father is an unrecovering, abusive, alcoholic), custody is prioritized for the biological parent. Even without the girl testifying on her father's behalf, if he's her biological father, and the step-mother is the step-mother, the father should have gotten custody (even if she was adopted by the step-mother).
There's a part to this story it seems like you don't have, or you aren't sharing. But, even so, I'm sorry man; that sucks.
There's a part to this story it seems like you don't have, or you aren't sharing. But, even so, I'm sorry man; that sucks.