My first RPG was FF4 (as ff2 on the SNES) and I've played the shit out of that game. Through the SNES era I loved RPG's such as Chrono Trigger and secret of mana. even as Nintendo moved on I was still enjoying those games, I finally got Final Fantasy 6, and my one of my first uses of an emulator was to play translated versions of Final Fantasy 5 and Tails of Phantasia which were not available in the US at that point. But I was a Nintendo kid and while I loved square I also loved Mario and Link and when Square cut ties with Nintendo and moved on to Sony I felt betrayed. My friend also had the PC versions of FF7 and FF8 so I played through chunks of them with him, and he latter got a playstation and got FF9 and Xenogears but other than trying to play through his copy of FF9 on a broken second hand PlayStation that I had acquired I had little direct experience with that era of games, although I wish I had more because some of those games were great.
But now most new JRPGs don't interest me much and I think it is largely because of that "J" in the name. When I was growing up their was no concept of a JRPG. I didn't really think about where games came from. Their was nothing that felt particularly Japanese about Mario, or Mega Man, or in this case Final Fantasy. To me a game like final fantasy was what an RPG was, and their was no-need for it to be put into a sub-category. And, I think square felt the same way, they were making the games that they were making. But, more recently I feel Japanese makers of RPG's have been infusing them with an oppressive amount of "Animeness;" filling the games with common tropes from Pop anime, and to me it just feels weird and artificial. I even like anime, I've watched large amounts of Cowboy Bebop, Eva, Black Lagoon, Ghost in the Shell, and others. But what I don't like are when character types that would make sense in a drama about a bunch of highschool students are put into a medieval fantasy epic.