Yatzee was right, "grind right up the bum", every game does it and most people love it till it burns them. Personaly i played WOW for about two years, one of those on a 'private' server, the other on the blizzard servers, and my experience of the game at large was some how dissapointing after moving to the ligit world. Let me explain...
Sure in the 'private' server there where bugs, you would often wake up one morning with 24hr of game time ahead only to find the server down for an hour, followed by all accounts being fraged by some admin glich, then have to spend 23 hours re-meeting everyone you knew on the server.
BUT...
It was like a family. It was like a realy fantasy world. It was untamed, unexpected and unending. With less than 200 people usualy involving themselves with the server at any time you really knew people, the few guilds who existed MEANT somthing, they DID things. Not like "oh we went to X and killed Y", it was more like a REAL adventure.
This all aside, I did have a lot of my RL friends come to the real WOW servers with me, about 6 of us in all at some point or another in the year played togeather. This was nothing to the experience i had while playing on a semi-broken, v0.5 eqv server with pings exceedign 20000 ms (yes that 20 secs to the server.... and yes thats 40!!!! secs for some one else to see me jump when i pressed space!!!!) All the same it was the building of friendships, the way people had time for eachother, and the manner in which the universe while HUGE for the few people who played seemed almost correctly scalled...... AFTER ALL WHERE DO ALL THE PEOPLE IN THE REAL WOW-ZERSE SLEEP!!!!!! (Hell there aint enough farms on one server to sustain the population of any one race.... even undead.... and they dont eat........... do they????? :S
Word out.