I completely agree with you on those points, and have been there before when a name or a word can mean more than the sum of its parts, it's only the term "gaymer" that I was never sure about. It felt like too much of a spotlight in a way. I guess, for myself as a gay woman, I didn't feel like tagging myself in that demographic when I was so scared of the rampant homophobia online, not just over MP but also in forums.BobisOnlyBob said:Even a small solace can be a critically important one. I'm bisexual, a gamer, and occasional visitor of /r/Gaymers. While I wouldn't identify myself as a "gaymer" it's a good name for the community and it acts as a nice haven of two larger communities - the "gay community", of which many gay guys don't consider themselves a member for varied reasons, and the gaming community, which can be utterly homophobic in language (frequently) and attitude (less often, but it does happen). Enforcing the trademark will lead to the dissolution of the existing subreddit and force the creation of a new one, disrupting and potentially splitting the community as well as breaking archived links and resources online. Life is fucking awful enough as a gay teenager or twentysomething if you're not in a good and supporting community, so why break up one just to mandate the existence of another with a different name? It's bloody obvious they're two different communities even at a glance, despite sharing the same name and subject matter.redknightalex said:I don't really care for the word "gaymer" one way or the other. At first, a few years ago when I first heard the term, I liked it. Gave a better sense of belonging when, at the time, I had none. Now, I'm not sure what the point of it is. There is the allure of being able to identify yourself with two potentially important ideas meshed together, where identity can give you a lot of peace of mind, while on the other hand you have a word that isn't the greatest one to use.
And I've never thought of the trademark causing that much of a disruption to communities which only help people find a place they can belong to, at least online. I've found others over the years, just as supporting, and I'd never want to be denied that, nor have anyone else's community be taken away from them. This trademark battle is absolutely stupid and, as you said, potentially damaging to many people.
Now I might have to check out the community. May not change my POV on the actual term but safe communities are always welcome. Gods know there aren't enough in real life.