Robot Number V said:
Evilpigeon said:
Robot Number V said:
Oh, and obligatory "In my opinion" statement. Although the fact that everything I just said is my opinion should really just be assumed.
I think you're missing the point of the statement. The point of 'in my opinion' is not to inform everyone else that what you're saying isn't gospel truth, it's a device to demonstrate that you're willing to allow others their own points of view. Without qualifiers such as 'in my opinon', 'I find that' etc many people will find you antagonistic, arrogant and closed minded every time you're expressing an opinion they find controvertial.
Well, that's a fucking crazy assumption to make. Saying "I like blue" does not somehow imply that I hate red and anyone who likes red.
It's not an assumption, without qualifiers you allow no room in your statement for disagreement. Using your example, it'd be like saying "blue is the best colour". The nobody cares about that is the debate over whether or not blue is in fact the best colour is so insubstantial and petty that nobody cares/ assumes you're aware of that.
Now, someone who read my last sentence and strongly disagrees with me and believes that debating which colour is best is a deep and stimulating use of their time will probably be quite annoyed because I ignored their point of view and stated my own point of view as though it was undeniably true. It doesn't matter that I think their view is rather strange, they are entitled to it and it's very easy to annoy people over petty things that they consider to be important.
For instance, I hate it whenever I see people refusing to acknowledge that others can find meaning in somethign that they themselves don't see. It's a petty thing for me to get annoyed about but it can make me instantly dislike somebody simply because they're expressing their opinion in a way I find arrogant: "I don't see what you see in this, therefore it doesn't exist because I am always right".
Is that a clearer way of explaining the purpose of phrases like "in my opinion" to qualify statements?