Great intro, Bob.
As for the review itself? I think you laid it on a little too thick when talking about the first movie. Maybe it's because I am a dad and you're not, but I never got any of the sort of xenophobic/patriarchal overtones that you placed on it; for me, it was simply a brutal illustration of how far a parent will go to protect their child.
Assuming I was in the same position he was and I had the same skillset that he did, I can't say that I would have acted any differently. Not because of xenophobia towards "the other" and not because "father knows best," but because I love my child, I would do nearly anything to protect my child from that sort of harm, and I have no sympathy at all for human traffickers.
Now, I can see where you're coming from with your analysis, but I think you may be over-analyzing.