SnakeoilSage said:
TheIronDuke said:
SnakeoilSage said:
If my girlfriend had been kidnapped for very real threat of human trafficking, I would likely BURN PARIS TO THE GROUND to find her and ensure she didn't wind up in some disgusting crime lord's heroin-addicted harem.
My own personal wish-fulfillment would be to wish this situation on people who want to be in it so badly. It's a win-win. They get a chance to live their dream of being an action hero, and I get to be smug about being right when they find out that criminal empires are usually empires because they don't collapse in front of solitary vengeance seeking heroes, that "I was trying to find my girlfriend" isn't an effective defence against charges of city-wide arson, or that they just aren't as skilled, equipped, or brave to actually begin any of their claims in the first place.
Yeah, here's the thing. I don't WANT to be in that situation. I never want to have to be involved in any way shape or form with that kind of thing. I would be tearing my own hair out if someone I loved were kidnapped, forcibly addicted to heroine, and forced to fuck fat crime bosses. I don't give a shit about being an action hero.
But if that's the only perspective you can see, then I guess that explains why you are here acting smug about your little wish-fulfillment fantasy being to watch people going crazy with fear and trying to kill the people who are hurting their loved ones, and why you don't have a relationship with anyone but your computer and a bottle of hand lotion.
There is a scene in the movie Pulp Fiction that explains almost every terrible thing happening in the news today. And it's not the scene where Ving Rhames shoots that guy's dick off. It's the part where the hit man played by John Travolta is talking about how somebody vandalized his car, and says this:
"Boy, I wish I could've caught him doing it. I'd have given anything to catch that asshole doing it.
It'd been worth him doing it, just so I could've caught him doing it."
That last sentence is something everyone should understand about mankind. After all, the statement is completely illogical -- revenge is supposed to be about righting a wrong. But he wants to be wronged, specifically so he'll have an excuse to get revenge.
We all do. It's in our genes. And once you come to terms with that, a whole lot of ugly things about the world start making sense, the dick of your illusions blown off by the shotgun of truth.
Think about the worst fight you were ever in. Now think about the last time you did cocaine. Did you ever notice how similar the rush was in both instances (maybe you couldn't tell, if both of those things happened on the same night). It's basic biology -- we mentioned before an experiment where scientists found that angry cursing soothes physical pain. It doesn't mean that someday they'll prep you for surgery by injecting you with motherfuckers; it means that when we get angry, our body releases the painkiller norepinephrine. It makes perfect sense -- the emotion we call "anger" or "hate" is a part of our evolutionary fighting instinct, so to prepare us for the battle, it pumps us full of anesthetic to block the pain and releases the pleasure chemical dopamine to ease our fears about fighting the tiger/tribesman/drunken Red Sox fan who is threatening us. Incidentally, these are the same two chemicals that are released when you smoke crack.
Quite simply, hate gets you high.
The science behind it is fairly new, but it explains so much, from wars to the confrontational dick at the office, from racism to the crazy girlfriend/boyfriend who is constantly trying to pick fights or create "drama." You are a biological machine built to hate, and you got that way because your ancestors killed off everyone who wasn't. Rage made you strong, and that strength let you win. This is why so much of society is built around controlling and suppressing it.
Source: http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-reasons-humanity-desperately-wants-monsters-to-be-real/
I'm not accusing you of anything - but there genuinely are people who fantasize about terrible things happening to them so that they can indulge in some justified hate-filled violence. And there are media specifically designed to cater to them.
Once again, I'm not saying you fantasize about something terrible happening to your significant other so that you can have revenge fantasy just because you like this movie - that would be terribly presumptuous of me. But there are people like that, and they get high on this stuff.