Haha, fair enough. That's why I am saying that there could be positivity from adding new people. However, there has to be a limit and saying that its ok for a non-geek to be a part of geekdom (a non-geek defined by having NO passion for the material, not by knowledge) seem contradictory.Imp Emissary said:There is something to what you say. However, I think you should add that just because something is a social norm doesn't mean that it's right, or that we should just let it continue.maxben said:Hey Escapist guys, great podcast.Unfortunately, I found your discussion of fake geek girls a little worrisome....
It is unfair to claim that people judging you for how you act are wrong because its their fault they feel that way. Its in fact counter to what you said about your theater experience. Its YOUR fault you are sensitive to people talking or that it bothers you. Your annoyance though is no more under your control than someone's annoyance at non-physical stimuli. The distinction doesn't hold water.
If we generalize the actual issue, the real question is about community norms and expectations.
EVERY community and society, micro or macro, complex or simple, are based around norms and expectations.
A community seeks to propagate itself but only so far as it keeps its fundamental values, otherwise we get the issues we have today with multiculturalism as people feel their societies are shifting from their traditional norms because it accepts people who do not follow said norms.
Now multiculturalism can also be benign and enriching. In the case of geekdom, consider how all the sub-communities combine make all of geekdom stronger and more complex and fascinating. However, every person cannot be aligned with every sub-community, and the norms and expectations within said sub-communities are going to be unique. This causes issues within geekdom, but they can all be solved through dialogue and exposure.
The idea of the non-geeks penetrating geekdom cannot be solved. If geeks are passionate about fringe entretainment, non-geeks are not passionate about fringe entretainment (this is not an argument from knowledge. I was a geek way before I knew anything of significance because of my passion). The community can't be accepting of people who are its exact opposite. You cannot add X to not-X and get anything enriching or positive. In the same way, if we are in a theater to watch a movie, those who make watching a movie harder are missing the fundamental point and are not adding anything to the experience (though its less of a community so much as communal, so we don't want them to do anything)
And I know that this was a similar argument to the one used when masculine geekdom tried to keep girls out referring to masculinity as its fundamental characteristic. But they were wrong, geekiness is the fundamental characteristic of geekdom and the proportion of males was incidental and was caused by social norms outside of geekdom. As those outside social norms changed, geekdom had to as well. I mean, if there was serious geek clubs and conventions in the 1800s I bet they would have banned Jews because these were Christian geek clubs, as was the norm in the greater society.
If people always did that, we would still have terrible things in society. Like salvery, not letting women vote, letting people get away with public bigotry to those not of the "norm", and of course we would still be using leeches and bloodletting as cure alls.
A society that rejects change either comes under attack, or is destroyed.
Although, I am with movie bob on this, how much is this actually a problem? Do these people actually exist? I can't imagine getting involved with a scene I hve no passion for for attention, and I cant really imagine people doing that.