Kopikatsu said:
I'm currently entrenched in work so the citations will have to come a bit later (But if you want to go have a look for yourself, the big names to keep in mind are the psych research of the Baryua, Maasai, and Sambia peoples; as well as the history of how sex and sexuality was handled in ancient European cultures, especially Greece.)
Anywho, I'll leave you with a short logic argument. One night stands are largely considered acceptable in most Western cultures. These are not considered to be a traumatic event, yes? What's the difference between a one night stand and rape?
Consent. That's the difference, also possible scarring (physical and emotional) and possibly infections due to said scarring, not to mention the rapist could easily have several STD's that the other person would not know about and would not ever want to have, if rape was accepted everywhere there'd be no way to control the spread of these diseases, as people would rape whenever they felt like it.
Congrats though, you asked the dumbest question I've ever seen.
Ignoring the semantics (Raped by a white person but would never normally sleep with a white person; raped by someone outside of their sexuality, etc'), the answer is the state of mind during the act. The rapee resists the act for whatever reason, although if I had to hazard a guess, in most cases I would say that they believe they have an unlimited right to their own body. As the sexual contact is unwanted, it is violating that perceived right and thus resistance is formed.
Now, that is a societal and moral thing. Morals are formed by the society one lives in, by the individuals experiences, and the interactions of the individual. In turn, this dictates where the lines are drawn in the given society. For example, most societies currently say that slavery and pedophilia are unconscionable acts. I could point to a million cultures (Hyperbole) throughout history that indulged in both and considered them to be perfectly acceptable. So, slavery and pedophilia are not objectively bad. They have benefits and drawbacks just like everything else. We arbitrarily decided that such things are unacceptable, but there is nothing inherently evil or wrong about those or rape. (Without doing any kind of research or anything to refresh my memory, I'll just point to the Huns for this, considering Genghis Khan is directly related to one in every two hundred Asian men or something)
Just because they were accepted at one point does not mean they are not bad, it means they were accepted, one of the benefits of most modern societies is free will, people are not forced to serve somebody else, they can pick and choose who they work for, this was established as a basic human right, back in the days where slavery was widely accepted the slaves were seen as either indentured servants, or they were seen as less than human, because if they were ever seen as human nobody would have ever kept them as slaves in the first place, some tyrants consider themselves above or better than everyone else or even infallible, and people follow them, does that mean they are better than the ones who work under them? No, they are still a person, with the same flaws as everyone else.
The reason pedophilia is OBJECTIVELY wrong is because a child's body has not matured enough to safely have sex, and have kids, and their mind has not matured enough to fully grasp the consequences of such events, there's no "arbitrarily deciding things" here.
Genghis Khan has a lot of descendants, and your point was...? If he has a lot of descendants, then he has a lot of descendants, that's it. How does that validate anything?
Anyway, back on track. A traumatic event is defined thusly:
A single experience, or an enduring or repeating event or events, that completely overwhelm the individual's ability to cope or integrate the ideas and emotions involved with that experience.
Cannot cope or integrate the ideas or emotions involved in the experience. This is very important, because it implies that the experience directly opposes the victim's beliefs.
NO. It does not, what it implies is that the experience itself was so overwhelming the person it happened to is unable to cope with such an experience, this is why rape victims can also sometimes be called "rape survivors" because some people are simply not able to cope with the experience (and can have triggers making them relive it), and commit suicide.
Belief has nothing to do with it, at all. Or are you suggesting that rape never traumatized people in the time when it was accepted, if you are, then you are wrong, you can find several records of people in the past who had been raped and committed suicide hundreds of years ago, and if you disagree, please link studies proving that rape never affected people until recently.
If someone was raised believing that murder was both necessary and good, then there's a high chance that they'll not have a problem with killing. Again, without being able to look anything up right now, I'll just point to terrorist organizations like AL-Queda for this, who are perfectly willing to kill because they believe it will secure their place in the afterlife.
They kill because they believe the people they are killing are evil, does this make them right? No, because they ignore any sort of peaceful solution, they value their own lives and souls above other people because they see themselves as different, even though I've already explained people like them aren't, because they are human, just like everyone else.
If the event falls in line with the individuals beliefs, then it can't be traumatic. For this, I'll just point back to the Sambia tribe. Pedophilia, rape, and what is essentially polygamy all wrapped into one heretical bundle. But there has been extensive psychiatric research done on the Sambia Tribe, and they're fine. None of these things were traumatic for them, because it was an expected and accepted part of their culture. Rape is only traumatic because society says that it should be.
How the fuck did you post a definition of trauma then forget about it a few paragraphs down? I'll refresh you, rape is traumatic because the person it's happening to cannot cope with what is going on.
Now I want to address a separate issue, you seem to be suggesting that rape should be brought in as part of modern society, when it absolutely shouldn't and here's why: To rape somebody is to force your will own theirs, you are forcing them into doing something they absolutely do not want to do, and that goes against one of the ideas of modern society, that being free will and everyone being equals, if we believe that we are equals, we should meet each other as equals, we should not see somebody else as inferior and therefore a target for whatever desire the person has.
But if you disagree, let me ask this; how is rape objectively bad? 'Violates one's right to their own body' or something similar is not an objective statement, it's a subjective belief and so it's not valid.
Rape is objectively bad because of health risks, you can have tearing of the tissue, infections, unchecked transfer of STD's, not to mention potentially having a higher suicide rate, not to mention if the victim fights back too much and things spin further out of control this rape might accidentally turn into a murder, but I suppose you are fine with that too.
Example! Most Eastern cultures believe that society is more valuable than the individual. If one must sacrifice, suffer, or die in order to further benefit society, then that is what the individual is expected to do. This doesn't mean that rape is permissible in these places (because the detriment of the individual does not benefit society enough to offset it), but it could be. In a completely hypothetical situation which will very likely never come to pass- imagine if all women suddenly refused to have sex with men and kept to that for an indefinite length of time. In the cultures were the individual is considered subservient to societal needs, rape would be justified in that case. Why? Well, it would mean that reproduction would cease. Society as a whole would be in grave danger of ceasing to exist. And so, you have to balance the rights of the individual against extinction.
So if rape doesn't benefit society, then by this argument it should be removed, so please tell me how rape DOES benefit society?
Your pathetic argument does not fill my question, artificial insemination has already eliminated the need for sex to continue the human race, and even if women refused to get pregnant they could simply pass a law forcing pregnancies, then leave it up to the women to decide how to go about it, rape would never be justified in such a situation, if the women was still adamant about not having a kid AT MOST they would get prison time, then be let out, not to mention it would take about 50-60 YEARS before people have to worry about humanity not continuing even if every women went to prison, by that time people will have figured out how to artificially make people out of donated eggs and sperm.
Now I want to pose to you a hypothetical question just as ridiculous as the one you gave me, if diseases suddenly vanished and all wars stopped, the population would skyrocket, would you legalize murder?
To use a less hyperbolic example, rape (especially during wartime conquests) greatly diversified large areas of the world genetically and even gained some groups ethnic rights. Native Mexicans and the Europeans, for example. They raped and plundered Mexico, and eventually settled there as they had children with the natives. While native-born Mexicans weren't treated very well at first, the mutts eventually came into positions of power and granted the natives rights.
And they protected them against future rapists, how exactly did rape help here? Because they had children? You do realize rapists (especially during wartime conquests) do not give a shit about any children they might or might not have right? Especially when the rape victims would usually get murdered afterword.