*Ahem* My Dear Madam: As a person who considers herself a hardcore gamer and has been playing games since she was at least 3 or 4, I take offense. I would like to introduce to The Game Overthinker, a man who explains that there is more to video games than meets the eye. Video games require basic reading and math skills among others. Many involve such things as strategy, like Civil War simulations and Final Fantasy. Video games also require creativity, like the recent puzzle-solving titles of Professor Layton and Scribblenauts. Some video games have a heavy focus on multiplayer like real board games do. The comments of adolescent males on XBox Live should not be your only measure of how we gamers act. We hate them too. I would also like to point out that video games are not like crack and addiction is not always acquired when you play video games. I can go months without touching any video games. Other titles like Brain Age and Nintendogs should make you reconsider your opinion on video games. If you think this was just a gamer who was lucky enough to have a smart friend type this for her, I would like to point out that I was my high school's valedictorian who took four years of science (including physics), math (including statistics and pre-calc), English (some college-level in my senior year), and history (world and U.S.), and am currently a Literature major and honors student on Dean's List at American University.
EDIT: Excuse me, ma'am, but I must make an edit. I forgot all the wonders video games also did for music. Jonathan Coulton, a wonderful and funny singer, became more famous because his song in the credits of puzzle-solving, brain-bending Portal was a major hit. Many a wonderful, mood setting piece of music has come from games. Final Fantasy X covers everything from action rock to a lilting piano melody full of sorrow.
To the Escapist: Do you think she'll read this or just dismiss me as crazy gamer? However, I do disprove her "no female gamers" argument.