Jack Macaque said:
Firstly I have no problem with gays, you wanna be gay, do it, just keep it out of my face, just out of common courtesy. And anyone who has enough courage to admit they're gay, good for you, it takes a lot of balls to do something like that. Only strong people could manage something like that.
What do you consider keeping gay out of your face? Am I allowed to kiss my boyfriend? Hug him in public? Go to movies together? Hold hands? I'm curious, what do you consider too much of "shoving it in your face"?
If I'm being perfectly honest, you seem to be bigoted. Not to a large extent, and I may be being extremely unfair here, but I see this all the time. People want gay individuals (or in my case, bisexual, which seems to be equally hated by both hetero and homosexual individuals) to simply keep themselves in the closet their whole entire life, and if they so much as kiss outside a gay bar it's a huge affront to the life, liberty, and justice of those around them. You strike me as the sort that doesn't "hate" gay people, but you want to treat them as second class citizens because you're not comfortable with their lifestyle. Again, I may be being entirely unfair, and if that's the case, I'm open to hearing your side, but I have seen this "don't shove it in my face" deal where hetero sexual individuals don't want any displays of affection in public outside of when THEY do it. It's grossly unfair, and it's a similar kind of "double standard" that gave birth to the Jim Crow laws. Oh, people in the 50's didn't HATE black people, they just had to remember to keep their heads down, and not drink from the same fountains or go to the same schools.
Jack Macaque said:
Oh nothing at all is wrong with being gay, but these days it seems to be more of a fad than anything, just like being a goth or any other fad for highschool kids.
I don't think any sane individual would ever agree to taking it up the poop shoot just to look cool if they weren't into it, but okay, if that's your opinion, that's your right. I don't see how it changes anything, though, because there ARE legitimate individuals out there who ARE legitimately gay, and they deserve equal rights. As such, we fight for society to, in general, not villify or portray gay individuals as "sick", "wrong", or "abnormal". Sadly, a lot of popular media has a hard time portraying gay individuals as anything but... Well, gay.
Jack Macaque said:
So people are born with it? Not likely. That's rather ridiculous.
Why do you say that? I want your take on this. I have seen a couple of studies on the subject, for example, identical twin studies (70% more likely to both be gay as opposed to one gay one straight when compared to fraternal twins; although admittedly, many other studies with identical twins seemed to not agree, making the overall results inconclusive in my mind), and another possible hypothesis (the female's immune system targets a male fetus, since it is different, and after each pregnancy, becomes more adept at "feminizing" the fetus... Thus resulting in more individuals becoming gay when they're, say, the 3rd or 4th son as compared to the second or first). Again, it's hard to get massive backing for these studies, but to me, the hypothesis makes sense, the results seem to support it, it's the scientific method at work. I'm not saying everyone is born with it, but to say that the natural course of things has no imput on it is kinda silly. Do I think we'd have more openly gay individuals now if society did not, in some cases, shame and look down upon gay individuals? Yes. I know I was afraid to come out (referring to my bisexuality) for years because my mother told me being gay was disgusting and wrong, and that she would disown me if I were. I'm sure the reason why being gay is more prevalent now is because society, as a whole, is more accepting now than it was 30 years ago, though there's still a way to go.
I'm curious as to how you think people become gay, however. Do people just one day decide, "I'm gonna make my life, and my sex life a lot more complicated by being gay!", or do they wake up one day in their early teens or late pre-teens, see a picture of a hot guy, and get a rise out of that as opposed to from a hot girl?