Iv'e been going out with her for a few months now and around a month ago she admited to having feelings for another man she said she would stop them from growing but when we had to spend some time away from one another she got close to him and since we got back together shes been seeing this other man and this weekend she spent two nights at his house and asked me that she wanted me to share her with this man I talked to him about it and he blantently doesn't care that I'm going out with her and she seems ready to leave me whenever I object to her doing something with him or talking about it to my friends. I really care about her but what shes doing is really messed up and everyone I've talked to has told me to bin her. Now this is partly my fault because for a time I wasn't Mr. perfect but I didnt do anything really wrong and I would do nothing like shes doing right now. I just don't know how to handle this in any way other than i just let her have her way and take the punches to stay with her or breaking up with her. So what you say Escapist any advice. Yes i know this is not a place to talk about this emotional crap.