Yes, I am a gay guy. Don't worry, you're not the first to get confused and I doubt you'll be the last.matt87_50 said:wait so I'm still confused as to exactly what is going on here... from the above, you're a gay guy, right?ReservoirAngel said:So me and the boyfriend were...
...I've had a friend I didn't even think was into dudes confess to thinking I was massively cute and...
Your post made me think you're a gay couple, and I couldn't follow the rest.ReservoirAngel said:One that has a tendency to talk about weird and awkward shit.the D0rk One said:What kind of couple are you?
I feel I should clarify here: all these confessions of crushes happened BEFORE me and him started dating.
We are a gay couple. I really need to find a way, short of prefacing every post with "I'm a dude who likes dudes", that lets people know that to stop all the confusion.the D0rk One said:Your post made me think you're a gay couple, and I couldn't follow the rest.ReservoirAngel said:One that has a tendency to talk about weird and awkward shit.the D0rk One said:What kind of couple are you?
I feel I should clarify here: all these confessions of crushes happened BEFORE me and him started dating.
To answer, I bounce between feeling complimented and feeling sorry for the person about to be (gently, imo, rejected). Unless they're too aggressive. Then I respond with my own brand of violence.
Aaah, so it was obvious in your post.ReservoirAngel said:We are a gay couple. I really need to find a way, short of prefacing every post with "I'm a dude who likes dudes", that lets people know that to stop all the confusion.the D0rk One said:Your post made me think you're a gay couple, and I couldn't follow the rest.ReservoirAngel said:One that has a tendency to talk about weird and awkward shit.the D0rk One said:What kind of couple are you?
I feel I should clarify here: all these confessions of crushes happened BEFORE me and him started dating.
To answer, I bounce between feeling complimented and feeling sorry for the person about to be (gently, imo, rejected). Unless they're too aggressive. Then I respond with my own brand of violence.
Mmmmnope, it's not confusing after all. I see what you did there.Basically, how would you react if one of your same-sex friends confessed to having a really strong crush on you, or even loving you?
Daaaamn, your hubby is a lucky basterd thenSusan Arendt said:Same way I'd react to someone of the opposite sex admitting they had feelings for me, by which I mean it would depend on my personal attraction to them (on all levels), and my relationship status at the time in question. I'm married now, so doesn't really matter who they are.
I can't speak for all gays but I get freaked the fuck out when a girl hits on me. I dunno how to process the situation and end up babbling like a fool. Even if she's really hot, I can't handle the entire premise of what's happening and my brain just tries to force me out of the situation.the D0rk One said:I never thought gay people are troubled when a person of the opposite sex hits on them.