CaptainCrunch said:
I usually play male, unless there's a story / class specific reason to play female. Yes, it's nice to stare at something you're attracted to, but I play few games in third-person perspective. The front of a real person is much more interesting anyway.
Interesting Anecdotes from my previous experience as a GM in an MMO, which I generally used female characters to appear in-game:
-Players are less likely to ask you to raid with them, and less likely to badger you for items. One "no" is enough for most people when it comes from a lady.
-Players are afraid of using bad language, offensive jokes, and the like when they know it's a girl that holds the banhammer.
-Players respond faster to instructions from women. It's actually more efficient to use a female character to process requests.
You know, I've only been in four guilds in WoW over the past few years, all on RP servers. Three of those were led by female GM's. One of those was led by a male. In the three women led ones, typically everyone did what they were told, and, without wanting to sound sexist, it always felt like the GM was a kind of 'mother' figure, and you do what mom says.
In the male led one, the order to things was strikingly different, with the guild interactions almost taking on a 'laddish' tone, even if the guild did have female members too, yeah, you'd do what the GM said, but people also seemed more likely to argue with him first. A lot of capslock.
As to the OP: Why not? (Seriously, how many times have those two words been repeated in this thread already?)
That said...for MMO's, my characters are mainly male, simply because being a role-player I feel it takes a little bit more to convincingly play a female toon ic as a guy, though I am aware of a number of people that do it.
Conversely, when we think to ask why a woman would play a male toon, and it's a little embarrassing that primarily the reason given is so that don't get harassed/annoyed, it's a sad state of affairs that there are such arseholes in MMO's that such a response is sometimes warranted.
For everything else:
Femme Shepard is better. That is all.