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[Lord_Ascendant]

two things

one: girls do weird things

two: what heck is with all these asking for help threads?

 

[jonnopon3000]

ahhh why do you not use the letter 'u' when it's needed?! about and out ... spelled wiht a u not two o's. please try to fix this.

Aboot and Oot are some of my internet trademarks, my friend...a joke from a long time ago, but in text and on forums i always speak like this. Call it the real me trying to get oot...(see what i did there?)

 

[curlycrouton]

Normally I'd come up with some advice to help and/or console the broken-hearted in this situation.

However, I'm not, because you're 15 years old.

Believe me, we've all been through this. You think you really love someone, but you can't truly appreciate love at that age. Sure, you can feel a physical and emotional connection, but that's still not love. Cynics may say that there's no such thing, but from experience I have a firm belief in love.

So here's my advice:

Stop worrying, it obviously isn't love. When you're old and bitter like the rest of us you'll look back and remember that time when you met that girl who you thought you loved. Then you'll laugh about how you took it so seriously. Then you'll probably die of pneumonia.

My point is, stop taking it seriously, you're too young.

 

[pirateninj4]

A couple of pointers?

How old are you?
How long was the relationship?

This will greatly help answers from everybody

Ok i know the first thing anyone will say is "dont worry aboot it you shouldnt be"...but its my decision ot be and like i said im in love with her...i am 15 and the relationship was like 6 months. And please nobody say something along the lines of:

"kid, you shouldn't be worrying aboot this kinda stuff you have exams etc...just live life and be happy"

Cause its my decision to be worrying aboot it and i like it this way. I wanna be with her

Well like a few other people have said, this kind of nullifies some pretty good advice. The reason you knew we'd say it is because you know it's good advice so keep that in mind.

Also, just because you and her family think it's a good idea doesn't mean you're all right. If she isn't into it, there will be a reason for it and you need to respect that reason. Nothing is less sexy in this situation than a young male thinking that he's got the right end of the stick because him, his buddies and her family agree with him.

Talk to her but don't expect her to come back to your side. Like you knew we'd say, it's not the end of the world.

 

[jonnopon3000]

Ok, i can see this is aboot where this thread will end. Just wanned to say thanks to all who helped me oot, and thanks for being honest. I have taken in all you have said, trust me, and so hopefully my actions can now be ones that help make the situation better.

I have spoken to some people, and everyone agrees that she seems ot have made the decision too quickly, and that over time there is almost definately a chance for us. I have let her know i am there for her whether she loves me or not, and she took well to this. Me being at her house asm uch as i am seems to be helping aswell-she talks to me often etc and we are getting a long just great.

In fact, at the moment, there seems to be no difference between how we used to act together when we were going oot except the lack of hugs/kisses/snuggling etc. So all is well, and if it doesn't work oot quite right...then i still have my escapist friends!

 

[mike1921]

A couple of pointers?

How old are you?
How long was the relationship?

This will greatly help answers from everybody

Ok i know the first thing anyone will say is "dont worry aboot it you shouldnt be"...but its my decision ot be and like i said im in love with her...i am 15 and the relationship was like 6 months. And please nobody say something along the lines of:

"kid, you shouldn't be worrying aboot this kinda stuff you have exams etc...just live life and be happy"

Cause its my decision to be worrying aboot it and i like it this way. I wanna be with her

I'm conflicted, this is either a smart thing for you to say or fucking idiotic. Depends on why you're saying it. If you are because you think this girl is "the one" and you should worry about your "future bride" or w/e you're an idiot. If you are because you've seen how conversations like this play out, concentrated on not giving a damn about this kind of thing , smart move.

Hey man, my girlfriend at 15 and I broke up over a really dumb reason, went our seperate ways, and ended up meeting again 4 years later. We were together for another ocuple years before she passed away. All I can say is that if it's meant to be it'll happen, but if you want to try and jumpstart destiny or whatever you want to call it, talk to her, really try to find out what the deal is. Be honest and supportive, buut not needy. Just let her know you're there for her. And if she completely blows you off, or just becomes a rancid B---- about the whole thing, eff her, you deserve better.

This

ok, i am so utterly confused and completely do not know what to make of my relationship status and situation. I have just been in the longest relationship of my life with a girl called lauren who i am absolutely certain that i love, and she loves me...or did. After a perfectly normal day, making plans for weekend we were goin oot with her mother and brother and brothers gf...but then an argument started between mother and brother...i left with the reason that i hate being around when all this is goin on, and in her bad mood she herself had said theres no point in me being there (cause we werent goin oot anymore). The next day she broke up with me. She refused to tell me the reason, claiming there isnt one...but then told me "i just wanna be single". Me and my buddies came up wit hthe idea that shes simply embarrassed aboot her home life and thinks it unfair for me to have to put up with it...but then we disregarded this untill tonight when her mother and mothers friend decided to tell me they are disapointed we broke up and they wanna see more of me again. They think she broke with me cause of the same reason me and ma buddies did. They are convinced she will "come around" in time. I have absolutely no idea what to make of it all...i mean, do we have a chance, is there more to the picture...will somebody on this darn website please offer me the help i feel no one i know (or no one that knows me) and so therefore could be influenced by thier like/dislike of me/her give me thier true opinion and "analysis" of the situation, just feedback aboot it all will do.

PS: as i said i have confided such a personal matter here cause i believe complete strangers will give the most honest answers here. Thank you all

Judging by this post alone, I'd say she dumped you because you seem to be clinically retarded.

The last thing this guy needs is a fucked up femi-nazi, please leave.

*snipped*

One last point, though I see yours: they fail too.

Now, let's say we end this discussion in order to tell this troll:

Judging by this post alone, I'd say she dumped you because you seem to be clinically retarded.

to fuck off.

Volume, that's the last thing he needs right now. Go away and stop trolling unless you have something, you know, useful to say.

Telling him he's retarded is useful though. He'll see he's retarded and hopefully get better. If not well...one more retard to poke fun at.

Great to see how you didn't explain why/how he's retarded.

You just 15...

Also till you hit 20, one night stands can't go wrong.

Uh, yes. Yes they can. In the same ways, but worse.

Well..unless you stupid they can't go wrong.

Ever hear of broken condoms?

The way I look at it, what's worse:

A) Accidentally getting a girl or yourself pregnant as an adult when you could potentially actually afford to support a child or
B) Same as A, but you're a teenager that doesn't have a chance in hell to be able to afford a kid

Even when taking adoption/abortion into account, A is obviously the lesser of two evils... ok, not "evils" just "mistakes".

Am I the only person in the world who cares less about an early-term abortion than a cricket, or is it just a guy thing? Yes I am serious.

PS. your grammar and spelling suck dude. I don't even look at my posts and they look way better than that, and I'm 13.

 

[StarStruckStrumpets]

ok, i am so utterly confused and completely do not know what to make of my relationship status and situation. I have just been in the longest relationship of my life with a girl called lauren who i am absolutely certain that i love, and she loves me...or did. After a perfectly normal day, making plans for weekend we were goin oot with her mother and brother and brothers gf...but then an argument started between mother and brother...i left with the reason that i hate being around when all this is goin on, and in her bad mood she herself had said theres no point in me being there (cause we werent goin oot anymore). The next day she broke up with me. She refused to tell me the reason, claiming there isnt one...but then told me "i just wanna be single". Me and my buddies came up wit hthe idea that shes simply embarrassed aboot her home life and thinks it unfair for me to have to put up with it...but then we disregarded this untill tonight when her mother and mothers friend decided to tell me they are disapointed we broke up and they wanna see more of me again. They think she broke with me cause of the same reason me and ma buddies did. They are convinced she will "come around" in time. I have absolutely no idea what to make of it all...i mean, do we have a chance, is there more to the picture...will somebody on this darn website please offer me the help i feel no one i know (or no one that knows me) and so therefore could be influenced by thier like/dislike of me/her give me thier true opinion and "analysis" of the situation, just feedback aboot it all will do.

PS: as i said i have confided such a personal matter here cause i believe complete strangers will give the most honest answers here. Thank you all

As a girl, I am believing from her point of view, I am inclined to think two things:

1. You did something. You did something wrong and she's not feeling it. It could be something basic, like maybe you just did something she didn't like, or perhaps it was something that festered, maybe she just feels something about the way you act is something she can't put up with, but long story short, the problem is you.

2. She did something. Maybe she feels she just isn't ready for a boyfriend, maybe she feels its just too much of a hassle and she just isn't feeling it at this time in her life, and wants to break it off without hurting any party too much. Long story short though, its not your fault, it just isn't the right time/place for her, and you need to respect that. Hey, maybe she'll come back.

Either way, give her space, be her friend but don't force your presence on her, and if it isn't meant to be, than you just have to accept it. Besides, she's 15! Sheeeeesh! What, were you engaged or something? Girlfriends come and go, and sometimes you just have to let them go, and even though it might hurt, you just have to remember that there is that person out there that will being you a greater joy. Good luck buddy.

The truth has never come hit me so easily, mind you, truth is a perceptional idea so...Well done for explaining it well. =)

 

[ThreeWords]

Kill her.

It's kind of fucked up seeing a kitten say that.

Have you seen the writing underneath? That kitten is seriously evil, even by my standards

 

[goatzilla8463]

Kill her.

It's kind of fucked up seeing a kitten say that.

Have you seen the writing underneath? That kitten is seriously evil, even by my standards

^This. He speaks the truth.

To get your attention.

 

[Wait...What]

I think all that can be said has been said, but just to draw from personal experience.
At 16 i broke up with a girl after 9 months for exactly the same reason. Only thing to do is DEAL, no offence but be a man about it.
THAT REASON usually means its over, nothing you do will change that.

EDIT: Prove me wrong and i'll apologise but i can't see it happening tbh

 

[Ghadente]

ahhh why do you not use the letter 'u' when it's needed?! about and out ... spelled wiht a u not two o's. please try to fix this.

Aboot and Oot are some of my internet trademarks, my friend...a joke from a long time ago, but in text and on forums i always speak like this. Call it the real me trying to get oot...(see what i did there?)

kinda alame trademark, makes you sound canadian or dyslexic ...wait those are the same thing right?... (see what i did there?)

well i hope you'll understand then that when you type as such you may not be taken seriously, and since you seem to want this thread to be taken seriously, i would suggest leaving the trademarks out of it.

 

[Kogarian]

It's kind of fucked up seeing a kitten say that.

Have you seen the writing underneath? That kitten is seriously evil, even by my standards

I Hate Everything

I actually didn't read the writing until you said that.

That cat is now officially giving off a weird, cute-yet-Hitler-evil vibe.