Yoshemo said:
Yeah I probably shouldn't butt in like that.
As for pathetic, I see alcohol as just another drug like pot, coke, or other stuff. It just happens to be legal. I see drunks as weak willed people who can't enjoy anything unless there's alcohol. I've been to plenty of parties where once they find out there's no alcohol, half the people just leave. Mostly everyone in my graduating class was either a drunk or a pot addict.. And all of them were dimwitted sheep who never did anything if it wasn't "cool" I know it doesn't apply to all drinkers, or maybe even most of them. But its what I see in my town
Well you certainly have a very low opinion of your fellow man, or at least your graduation class.
I'll use myself as an example, as I don't think I'm "pathetic" in any sort of way. Partying is about alcohol, to me. I might as well be frank. I don't require being wasted, but I do require it to be possible.
I don't do anything for anyone other than me.
Alcohol helps you loosen up, really boosts your confidence and takes away boundaries. It's fun. It's not something I do throughout the week, but on the weekends. I've done pot, coke and "other stuff" as well, and neither of those because they "were cool". I just want to try life; see what it has to offer.
I've had some of the most fun times of my life when I've been drunk, because the drunkeness of myself and others have led to some incredibly hilarious situations in hindsight. At first you think "Holy shit, I did what????" and maybe feel an ounce of regret... Soon you can laugh about it, and enjoy how much you aren't bound to the rules and norms of society.
EDIT: What has been said has been said. That was a poor wording. I meant to say something like "Soon you can laugh about it, and enjoy how you are still able to distance yourself from your every-day, and do something out of the ordinary.
Also, you will go to a bar to pick up women with you mates, and not get drunk? What???
anthony87 said:
I wasn't intending to judge, why so aggressive? I was simply stating from personal experience that constantly going out and getting shitfaced hammered is a bad idea, but like you said, if there's something to celebrate or whatnot then sometimes you just let loose and don't care.
At the same time what one person considers "getting hammered" is probably a quiet evening to someone else.
I wasn't being aggressive, didn't you see the smiley? Come on, I included it for
that very reason!
Well, to you it may seem like a bad idea, but you can really test yourself and see how long you can go. I remember when I graduated high school - I went out for 8 days straight, probably a combined 40 hours of sleep, averaging at 5 a night(which was sometimes day). That was celebratory, yes.
I would advice against getting shitfaced every time you are drunk as well, although it can be very funny, and in my younger years I did little but that. I'd say you have to experience it, but that again I'd say that about just anything, so maybe I'm the wrong guy.
Also, "getting hammered" can only mean getting hammered. It doesn't matter how much you can drink - we are talking about a level of drunk, the one where you're
fucking hammered. I don't think anyone stays at home, and have a quiet night while being
fucking hammered.