So when you want to break off a relationship, how do you do it ? Do you have routine way to do it ?Or do you take it case by case? What do you do?
Now there are several ways people break up with someone they were dating,someways are more-or-less socially acceptable, but I am not here to judge, i am just curious.
I personally ( and i am not proud of this ) break up by text message, i know it is viewed as the cowards way to do it,but i handle emotional women rather poorly ( by emotional i don't necessarily mean crying, but also confusion or anger), so i rather not see them when i do it.But i do leave subtle hints in the week heading up to the break up, so the girl wouldn't but utterly clueless.
I came up with this topic because a friend of mine explained his methode, which i didn't believe at first, but i comfirmed it recently and was left in shock.I personally think his methode is bigger douchbaggery than mine but i might be bias. Basically what he does is, when he want's to call it of with a girl, he would sit he down and tell her he want's to have an open relationship ( meaning he wants to continue seeing her but sleep with other women, but she also would be able to ), and follows up by saying that if she doesn't agree they are going to have to break up because he doesn't want to cheat on her. Every woman he used this line on said no, thus officialising the break up. He said the reason he does this is, just in case the girl says yes(which has yet to happen ) well he gets to sleep with several women, and if she says no, well it's basically the girl that officialises the breakup making him feel less guilty.
So how do you break up with someone?
Now there are several ways people break up with someone they were dating,someways are more-or-less socially acceptable, but I am not here to judge, i am just curious.
I personally ( and i am not proud of this ) break up by text message, i know it is viewed as the cowards way to do it,but i handle emotional women rather poorly ( by emotional i don't necessarily mean crying, but also confusion or anger), so i rather not see them when i do it.But i do leave subtle hints in the week heading up to the break up, so the girl wouldn't but utterly clueless.
I came up with this topic because a friend of mine explained his methode, which i didn't believe at first, but i comfirmed it recently and was left in shock.I personally think his methode is bigger douchbaggery than mine but i might be bias. Basically what he does is, when he want's to call it of with a girl, he would sit he down and tell her he want's to have an open relationship ( meaning he wants to continue seeing her but sleep with other women, but she also would be able to ), and follows up by saying that if she doesn't agree they are going to have to break up because he doesn't want to cheat on her. Every woman he used this line on said no, thus officialising the break up. He said the reason he does this is, just in case the girl says yes(which has yet to happen ) well he gets to sleep with several women, and if she says no, well it's basically the girl that officialises the breakup making him feel less guilty.
So how do you break up with someone?