How open are you with sexuality?

[TheTygerfire]

To clarify, how openly do you discuss sexual topics. This can be your own sexlife, turn-ons, your body or those of others, or just how explicitly you discuss things of a sexual nature.

Normally I try to remain tactful, but if someone brings up a topic that requires sexual discussion, I loosen up and talk very explicitly. It helps that most of the people I speak to (including the one that I date) also have this mindset.

 

[A Weary Exile]

Pretty open-minded, really. I'm straight,but open to experimentation and all that. I've just never gotten the opportunity to actually *have* sex.

I only speak frankly about sexual topics with other people who are just as open, otherwise I know I'm making the other person uncomfortable. Plenty of other things I'd rather discuss, but I have no qualms about talking sex.

 

[chaosyoshimage]

Online, super open who cares it's the internets. Offline, not at all, well, when I was in school, but just to make jokes and crap since I'm gay and that's very frowned upon where I come from. Honestly, it was mostly me trying to not sound gay...

 

[generals3]

Depends on the people i'm talking to really. If it's people i know well i won't hold back but if i don't know them that well i might hold back a bit.

 

[Lieju]

Depends on the kind of discussion and who I'm having it with. I study biology, and having an academic discussion about sexuality or biological, cultural and physical aspects of it is easy for me.

But as for personal preferences, not so much.

I'm a lesbian, and that's no secret, but I'm not going to bring it up either unless it comes up somehow, and I'm not going to talk about my personal preferences, because it's private.

 

[CATB320]

I'm kind of a prude. Anything sexual makes me uncomfortable, haha. I don't really get it when people talk openly about experiences -- not because I'm offended or anything, but because to me, things like that are very private.

 

[Freaky Lou]

I'm very open, but always speak about it in rather clinical terms that wouldn't turn anyone on or indicate arousal at all.

 

[Just_A_Glitch]

I'll tell anyone anything if they ask. It's just sex. I try to keep it mature, and I dont brag about any "sexual conquests" though.

 

[DannyJBeckett]

Being straight, I'm naturally quite open about my sexuality, I also don't mind people who are bisexual or homosexual. However, I do have a tendency to shy away from sexual discussion or jokes about sexuality, and prejudice against homosexuals, bisexuals or specific genders are absolute no-nos to me. If someone were to say in conversation, for instance, "Look at that fucking f****t over there", I'd probably have to physically restrain myself from flooring that person.

 

[orangeban]

Eh, I'm perfectly willing to be open about it, but I suspect most people wouldn't want me to be. I'm into some weird stuff.

 

[Chevalier noir]

I only tell close friends about my bisexuality irl. I'm pretty reserved about it.

On the internet? Pfft I tell everyone if its relevant to the topic.

 

[Something Amyss]

I don't go around talking sex or sexuality. But I also don't tend to pull punches when it comes up.

I just don't really care about people's sexuality, turnons, or sex life, unless I'm trying to have sex with them. And since I am a misanthrope, that only happens when I can no longer resist.

 

[KingGolem]

Not at all! I consider sex to be another distasteful bodily function, and thus impolite to discuss under normal circumstances. The only thing I will mention is my vow of chastity, and only when prompted.

 

[lacktheknack]

I prefer to stay in general terms. Sexuality is a private thing, and opening up too much about it... would you like to hear about my collection of bear bladdersI do not actually have one, sadly while we're at it?

 

[Je Suis Ubermonkey]

I talk very openly about it... Whether I'm telling the truth or having everyone on is up to them to work out.

However, get me into a sexually orientated game of truth or dare and I won't lie. At all. No matter how awkward the results may be.
I know this because I played for several hours with a few close friends until we couldn't think of any more questions.

 

[weker]

Very open, nothing really bothers me from that area of chatter, which tends to take people by surprise.
I tend to lul most into the false idea that I am very geeky, posh, and well mannered, until WHAM, in with the extremely vulgar reference and such.

People tend to enjoy my company due to this conflicting personality trait I have.

 

[Zombie_Fish]

If people are talking about sexuality or ask me about my own, then I'm more than happy to talk about it -- this is actually how I ended up telling the first two guys I came out to (they had also been good friends with me for the past six years so it's not like I just came out to complete strangers). Otherwise I don't really talk about it, the only exception being coming out to my parents which still required a lot of effort to just bring up in conversation. I'm perfectly fine with this, but since sexuality rarely comes up in typical conversations with my friends and I don't look that camp a lot of people do end up assuming I'm straight.

As for the Internet? I couldn't care less.

 

[Blow_Pop]

Shoulda known you would be the one to start this Nate.....


Very open though not so much as I will bring it into every conversation. I bring it up when appropriate or if someone else brings it up. Online, in person, it doesn't bother me. I was raised with my mum always talking to me about sex and stuff so it doesn't bother me. Its more fun in public when it bothers someone else though.

 

[ImperialSunlight]

It depends on the person I'm talking to. If the person is really open then I'm really open. If not, I'm not.

 

[Josue Rodriguez]

I like to keep it private and when others are talking about it openly, I don't feel like sharing such a private part of my life. NOW, when it comes to talking about fantasy shit like which characters look hot or whatever then sure sexuality can come in as a topic, they're fictional characters, I feel like I can't offend anyone lol