Hmmm, well Bob, you have to understand that your also dealing with a world in which "geek media" is increasingly being absorbed and subverted by the industries they report on, and this includes the critics. Not to mention the issue of politics and how the industry has been walking a tightrope of wanting to sell things like SOPA which upset fans, while at the same time fighting against legislature trying to regulate game content.
A lot of the accusations of hypocricy come from people noticing when a geek-personality they listen to, changes opinion in a way that reflects current politics and what the industry is pushing for, or a point it's trying to make. Saying you disapprove of a violent game in one place, but then approve of something very, very similar later, when the opinions move in time with the winds of the politics (either in support of, or opposition), it does tend to get noticed.
Likewise when someone reporting on geek media inserts their own political views into the analysis of the material, why they think something was made, or how it turned out, well that can seriously affect how someone views them and the integrity of their work. Doing things like trying to claim a continued racial bias in Hollywood as being part of the reason a movie turned out like it did (referancing something like your review of "Tower Heist") this can push some serious buttons when it's presented more strongly than something that is the opinion of a critic should be.
I get the impression that your feeling somewhat persecuted in writing this. As one of those who has questioned you heavily I will say flat out that if I didn't like you, feel it was worth the time, or enjoy your productions I wouldn't listen loyally every time they go up and bother to comment. At the same time however, you could probably reduce the criticisms, attacks, and whatever else your getting (which I assume come from people a lot ruder than me, I at least TRY and be polite and sensible within my own viewpoint) by focusing on geek media in of itself, and maybe SOME of the business aspects, without trying to toss out politics, and statements about Hollywood whitewashing of current movies, and similar things which you might personally believe, but are going to net serious disagreement and slot people off, especially when they are simply your own theories and suspicians. The way you state things might technically make it an opinion, but at the same time the way it's delivered makes it forceful enough to seem as it's being presented as a fact. A decent stage or speaking technique, but one that can easily backfire, and I think that is what your seeing here accross a lot of differant issues. Someone you slot off isn't going to care about you defending yourself on a technicality or specific phrasing. Especially seeing as I'm sure it clear to them (and probably you) how they arrived at a specific conclusion. Semantics make a very bad defense in any serious discussion or debate.
That's my thoughts at any rate.