I need the cutest thing I could possibly do to win a girls heart.
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Um, why don't you just keep dating? You're making a mountain out of a molehill thinking you have to do something extra super special cute to tip her over the edge, it doesn't work like that, just keep dating her and she'll get there eventually, your eagerness to get her to like you will only come through as false to her and it'll turn her off you more than anything.
Take a chill pill dude.
Take a chill pill dude.
Yeah, but its terrible when you have to turn a boy down when they pull something like that.Chrissyluky said:as sad as it is alot of us are suckers for Japanese trinketsErana said:. seriously just ask her out if she likes you shel give you a shot just dont screw up on the date
But I don't have a libido. When a boy's infatuated with you, and there's nowhere to go beyond simple handholding, its a formula for inevitable heartbreak...
I've been in a long-distance relationship for over a year, and it's going well. Of course, some things that work in my situation may not be perfect for yours (and if they do, you may have to make some changes), but I have done a couple things she really loved.
A few weeks ago I paid her mom for two dozen roses: I live 4 hours away, so I often have her set things up for me. I sent a handwritten letter, which her mom picked up when she went to get the roses. While my girlfriend was at work, her mom scattered a dozen roses around her room and put the other dozen in a vase with my letter tied to it. She loved that.
Also, know her interests. Knowing that my girlfriend likes video games, I coded a small visual novel for her on Valentine's Day: an interactive love letter, if you will. That worked well.
I would also recommend looking up info on the 5 Love Languages, or just get the book by that name. Amazingly helpful information on what kinds of people respond to what kinds of affection. Highly recommended.
A few weeks ago I paid her mom for two dozen roses: I live 4 hours away, so I often have her set things up for me. I sent a handwritten letter, which her mom picked up when she went to get the roses. While my girlfriend was at work, her mom scattered a dozen roses around her room and put the other dozen in a vase with my letter tied to it. She loved that.
Also, know her interests. Knowing that my girlfriend likes video games, I coded a small visual novel for her on Valentine's Day: an interactive love letter, if you will. That worked well.
I would also recommend looking up info on the 5 Love Languages, or just get the book by that name. Amazingly helpful information on what kinds of people respond to what kinds of affection. Highly recommended.
Agreed. Something about a guy stumbling over his feelings for a girl is kind of cute.justnotcricket said:
...That seems terrible, actually, that we find that cute.
Gross. Her and what, every other girl on the planet?TheMasterGL16 said:
I'd view this as a golden opportunity to experiment, because there are endless girls exactly like this that you will go through in life. You've got nothing to lose by taking a risk.
Of course I'm not the sort of person who enjoys social interaction, and you're not going to take my advice anyway because you're a ******.
lol
TheMasterGL16 said:
Sounds like you are making the mistake of trying too hard. DON'T. It doesn't work like the movies. You can't stand under her window with a boombox playing "In Your Eyes"...at least not early on, this is something for later after you have a relationship.
Best advice: be yourself, play it calm and cool, and by all means, don't let the head in your pants call the shots.
Creating artificial displays of "cuteness" can backfire and you will look desperate.
In my experience, just go with the clich'e 'nice' or 'sweet' sort of things like: holding hands/lots of compliments/a present etc. (you get the idea), it worked for me.
If you're looking for her to have an 'aww' moment then you don't have to be particularly creative (if you already know her well then you can just apply your own knowledge of her to this as well).
Simply put, be a nice guy and don't make a prick of yourself.
Now for the comedic answer, give her the ultimatum of 'TITS or GTFO'.
If you're looking for her to have an 'aww' moment then you don't have to be particularly creative (if you already know her well then you can just apply your own knowledge of her to this as well).
Simply put, be a nice guy and don't make a prick of yourself.
Now for the comedic answer, give her the ultimatum of 'TITS or GTFO'.
While hugging her slowly slip you hand down the back of her jeana/skirt and clench her cheek. OK I am just kidding. To be honest I have no experience in this so ill leave this to all the real human beings.