firmicute said:
Here is a lot of arguments, some anecdotal evidence, some historical. Almost all good but it would make this post too long so here's the link
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/9.826049-I-used-to-dislike-Anita-Sarkeesian-but?page=7#20054321
Anyway, I enjoyed reading your post. Lots of evidence where men robbed women of their accomplishments in science. and female sultans. And that is all tip of the iceberg. But, lets put some things into perspective.
While I agree women were stripped of their social power through the history it was in exchange for lacking responsibility, and safety from harm. Not a choice they made consciously but something that trickled over from times when that was only reasonable position. And women were right for fighting that. And they won.
What you describe is power abuse (except for female sultans. Like any other ruler taht didn't shake feathers somewhere, they were ignored. If they went for a bit of conquering with significant results, or shaken up the hierarchy, you can bet we would her of them). Men were in power and they used that power to give them self partially undeserved credits. More often than from women, they would steal from assistants or students for example. Difference is, since women were in much lower numbers in scientific comunity, it actually hurts much more. Every minority feels this to this day
But, as I said, women won their power. They can vote, own and kick to the curb. Only problem is that, through history, men had the power and responsibility for actions of those not in power under them (women and children). Now women have power but are reluctant to take responsibility as well. And who can blame them, men would do the same if they could. In old days, even if women had no power outside family and friends unless they, as individuals, fought for them (well there always was shaming), they had no responsibility outside those communities either. Now, the curve is all messed up. It should be that as one goes up, other goes equally up too.
Also, you didn't mention this, but I must bring up. Males and females are different. Biologically and psychologically (this is argued to no end but no real counter argument has yet been shown). There for we can?t really be filling the same roles. Men can't be mothers (for now) and women can't be fathers (although we are bloody close to that). Men have much stronger muscular and bone structure but burn more fuel, while women are more fragile but can survive longer without fuel. Men are fighters, women are survivors. That is not to say we are not equal, just not the same. With that in mind, i must say gender roles are not bad per se. They can be used to do great damage, but so can a beautiful poem.
Not to say that women should be without power, or locked out of any positions they desire. Just to say that we all have baggage to drag behind us. I would say that, in some ways, women got screwed over with childbearing. It's a wonderful but immensely painful thing. Most of all, its interruptive of everything. If you have a career and want a family, you are going to be overshot by competition. It sucks, but never the less; it's a fact of life. And it's never going to be a nice solution for that problem. You are going to sacrifice something. just like a man always sacrificed products of his labor in order to attain a safe and happy family.