Asexuality is a thing, it's not a debate. It's well-known that one of the most frustrating things asexuals have to deal with is having their sexual orientation dismissed, not just by the larger heteronormative society but by LGBT people too. I actually remember around a year ago having to defend the legitimacy of asexuality from someone insisting that sexual urges are universal, and hearing nonsense like "asexuality is a mental illness".
That said, I am not an asexual. Nor do I fall on any part of the "asexuality spectrum". However, I'm confused about why asexuality is so commonly associated with LGBT struggles. To a certain degree I understand, it's a widely misunderstood sexual orientation (much like homosexuality, bisexuality and so on). But on the other hand, what struggles are there apart from the annoyances that come with asserting your lack of sexuality? I'm talking generally here, I know things like "corrective" rape and sexual assault happen. But do they face discrimination the way groups classically defined as "LGBT" do?
I'm trans and I'm a vegetarian. The former group faces harassment, intimidation, discrimination and even threats of violence. The latter group faces ignorance, pressures to change and ridicule, but aren't discriminated against. At the moment I see the frustrations asexuals deal with to fall more in line with the latter category than the first, but I'm sure there's more to it than I'm suggesting.
So if you fall on the asexual spectrum or know someone who does (enough to give a semi-confident answer), is there anything you feel necessitates the classification of asexuals as a "protected class" or something similar?
That said, I am not an asexual. Nor do I fall on any part of the "asexuality spectrum". However, I'm confused about why asexuality is so commonly associated with LGBT struggles. To a certain degree I understand, it's a widely misunderstood sexual orientation (much like homosexuality, bisexuality and so on). But on the other hand, what struggles are there apart from the annoyances that come with asserting your lack of sexuality? I'm talking generally here, I know things like "corrective" rape and sexual assault happen. But do they face discrimination the way groups classically defined as "LGBT" do?
I'm trans and I'm a vegetarian. The former group faces harassment, intimidation, discrimination and even threats of violence. The latter group faces ignorance, pressures to change and ridicule, but aren't discriminated against. At the moment I see the frustrations asexuals deal with to fall more in line with the latter category than the first, but I'm sure there's more to it than I'm suggesting.
So if you fall on the asexual spectrum or know someone who does (enough to give a semi-confident answer), is there anything you feel necessitates the classification of asexuals as a "protected class" or something similar?