- Nov 27, 2009
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So I've been wondering what it means to be for quite a long time and I do wonder what people think about it, particularly what makes someone themselves.
So before I go into an inevitably long rant that will surely still fail to convey that my feelings and thoughts properly, I wanted to ask who are you?
As in what is it that makes you, well yourself.
And yes I guess that operates under the premise that you are real, which is arguable, but even if you're not a convincing simulacrum of a person should have some script as to what they are so likely a question worth asking.
So before I go into an inevitably long rant that will surely still fail to convey that my feelings and thoughts properly, I wanted to ask who are you?
As in what is it that makes you, well yourself.
And yes I guess that operates under the premise that you are real, which is arguable, but even if you're not a convincing simulacrum of a person should have some script as to what they are so likely a question worth asking.
I'll try to keep this short since I could probably go on forever (And likely will if anyone asks me) about this topic.
After thinking about it for a long time I've realized that the answer has changed a lot over time, for example way back in the day I would've held things such as the fact that I was a thief, ridiculously short, tough and "scary", some of these were true at the time but no longer apply for example I went from thief to "vigilante" to neither and I felt very strongly about those things in regards to who I am, I also grew up and my height is now average and I realized I was delusional and while it takes a lot to make me cry in front of someone I'm hardly tough and definitely not scary, especially not then that was simply a delusion I convinced myself was real just because I have a scar on my face, but I'm a soft-skinned, skinny and sexually ambiguous thing, certainly something that makes some people uncomfortable but hardly scary.
Then there's the issue of ethnicity, which is simpler but not quite, I was born and raised inside the country of México, so obviously I'm Mexican but for example my dad's mom was British and very white her husband was Mexican but of Spanish and French descent, while my mom's dad was very brown and supposedly of Aztec descent and her mom was of Spanish and Turkish descent, so genetically I'm barely Mexican though my skin is yellow, which is weird and different from both my parents and my siblings, so I guess I'm a mutt of sorts, regarding just geographical origin is also weird, physically I was born in a small beach town in Jalisco, legally I was born there and simultaneously in Zacatecaz and I'm technically two different people with even two official social security numbers, so I gess even legally I'm an existential mess, fitting I guess, the other thing is that I also moved a lot, sometimes living in places for less than a year and as a result I don't really feel like I'm from anywhere.
There's the topic of sexuality and gender too I guess, one that I decided to ignore for most of my existence, probably because I have a complicated history with sex, which I won't get into in this post but I've mentioned it before, but the point is that even my claim that I'm asexual could be argued against as I could be just traumatized and suffering from PTSD, though both my therapist and I think of that as unlikely at least now, but I definitely had untreated PTSD at some point, with gender it's just weird, I've never really felt like anything but nevee gave it any importance because I'm not interested in Sex so it shouldn't matter, there are many things that make it complicated such as the fact that people often assume me to be female, particularly online but it has happened IRL too since I tend to present androgynous, I also tend to find female characters far more relatable than male ones, but I don't really feel like a woman, however while I don't find the body I inhabit to be disgusting nor do I hate it, but it just doesn't feel like it's mine and there are parts of it I'm uncomfortable with, to be honest while it is impossible if I could I would leave it behind and just be a consciousness without a body or at least move into a different one, but I guess that just speaks to how crazy I probably am.
This leads me to the topic of names, the truth is Ive never liked my name I've always expressed desire to change it, like even a decade ago but the truth is that I don't know to what, I've gone by many names, I have a different name in almost every online community and none really feel right and I often wish I didn't have to have a name, maybe I'm being arrogant but I don't feel like I can be a word, I guess that perhaps it's that I've dissociated from reality so much that I can only think of myself as a collection of thoughts and feelings, to the point that all else feels quite alien, I guess I should mention pronouns here too, I don't get it, any pronouns are fine because I male such little sense that it doesn't matter.
To be honest I could go on, I do little else but think about these kinds of things and I haven't gotten to how I'm not sure what being human even is or if I should be considered one, but basically I want to know about other people because I'm not even sure what it means to be and maaaany other things.
Honestly if there's one thing I know is that if mind reading was a thing, mind readers would go mad whenever they tried to read my mind.
After thinking about it for a long time I've realized that the answer has changed a lot over time, for example way back in the day I would've held things such as the fact that I was a thief, ridiculously short, tough and "scary", some of these were true at the time but no longer apply for example I went from thief to "vigilante" to neither and I felt very strongly about those things in regards to who I am, I also grew up and my height is now average and I realized I was delusional and while it takes a lot to make me cry in front of someone I'm hardly tough and definitely not scary, especially not then that was simply a delusion I convinced myself was real just because I have a scar on my face, but I'm a soft-skinned, skinny and sexually ambiguous thing, certainly something that makes some people uncomfortable but hardly scary.
Then there's the issue of ethnicity, which is simpler but not quite, I was born and raised inside the country of México, so obviously I'm Mexican but for example my dad's mom was British and very white her husband was Mexican but of Spanish and French descent, while my mom's dad was very brown and supposedly of Aztec descent and her mom was of Spanish and Turkish descent, so genetically I'm barely Mexican though my skin is yellow, which is weird and different from both my parents and my siblings, so I guess I'm a mutt of sorts, regarding just geographical origin is also weird, physically I was born in a small beach town in Jalisco, legally I was born there and simultaneously in Zacatecaz and I'm technically two different people with even two official social security numbers, so I gess even legally I'm an existential mess, fitting I guess, the other thing is that I also moved a lot, sometimes living in places for less than a year and as a result I don't really feel like I'm from anywhere.
There's the topic of sexuality and gender too I guess, one that I decided to ignore for most of my existence, probably because I have a complicated history with sex, which I won't get into in this post but I've mentioned it before, but the point is that even my claim that I'm asexual could be argued against as I could be just traumatized and suffering from PTSD, though both my therapist and I think of that as unlikely at least now, but I definitely had untreated PTSD at some point, with gender it's just weird, I've never really felt like anything but nevee gave it any importance because I'm not interested in Sex so it shouldn't matter, there are many things that make it complicated such as the fact that people often assume me to be female, particularly online but it has happened IRL too since I tend to present androgynous, I also tend to find female characters far more relatable than male ones, but I don't really feel like a woman, however while I don't find the body I inhabit to be disgusting nor do I hate it, but it just doesn't feel like it's mine and there are parts of it I'm uncomfortable with, to be honest while it is impossible if I could I would leave it behind and just be a consciousness without a body or at least move into a different one, but I guess that just speaks to how crazy I probably am.
This leads me to the topic of names, the truth is Ive never liked my name I've always expressed desire to change it, like even a decade ago but the truth is that I don't know to what, I've gone by many names, I have a different name in almost every online community and none really feel right and I often wish I didn't have to have a name, maybe I'm being arrogant but I don't feel like I can be a word, I guess that perhaps it's that I've dissociated from reality so much that I can only think of myself as a collection of thoughts and feelings, to the point that all else feels quite alien, I guess I should mention pronouns here too, I don't get it, any pronouns are fine because I male such little sense that it doesn't matter.
To be honest I could go on, I do little else but think about these kinds of things and I haven't gotten to how I'm not sure what being human even is or if I should be considered one, but basically I want to know about other people because I'm not even sure what it means to be and maaaany other things.
Honestly if there's one thing I know is that if mind reading was a thing, mind readers would go mad whenever they tried to read my mind.