Innegativeion said:
Actually, according to this "science side" you are referencing, sex is defined by your body structure.
That is, if you have a vagina you're a woman, if you have a penis you're a man.
Chromosomes determine how a body's cells will go about structuring themselves. XX means the cells will arrange female organs, and produce more estrogen that testosterone. XY means more testosterone and male organs. But the chromosomes themselves don't actually do anything in this regard, they are essentially just the instructions.
Think of it this way; someone starts making a loaf of bread, by reading a recipe. They have a dough mix set up, but someone puts in a lot of sugar and butter and some other ingredients. When the bread comes out, it's a cake. It tastes like cake, it has the consistency of cake etc. Would you call it a bread loaf, though, because the original instructions said it was so, even though said instructions are no longer adhered to?
That analogy doesn't work in this situation, because the transsexual was already one thing before the operation.
So the proper analogy going with your food reference: I mix the ingredients together to make bread, I bake it, and bread comes out.
Then after a day or two, I do something to turn that bread into a cake. Said bread use to be cake. I give that "cake" to a few people that really like cake, but hate bread. They eat the cake, and then I tell them they technically just ate bread. Now they don't speak to me for a week or never again because I deceived them and made them eat something that they hate.
It doesn't matter what the people are up in the head, if they come out as male, they are male. Then they go and have an operation and become female. That doesn't not change that fact that they use to be male.
I don't care what a person has had done to make himself look like a woman, if I find out that person use to be a man, I will forever consider that person a man. "She" had surgery, she is a fake woman.
It is like any other situation when I find out something is fake. Take a woman's breasts for example. If I like the looks of them, they will turn me on. If I some how find out they are fake,
BOOM, I don't find them attractive in the slightest anymore. I don't find women that have had elective plastic surgery, to be attractive. It tells me that they are vain and most likely have personality issues that I don't care for.
When it comes to relationships, I only want what is natural. A girl that use to be a guy, isn't natural.