I'm too scared to ask her out!

[C95J]

I need advice but nothing seems to be working

EDIT: I'm 15.

 

[enzilewulf]

Well do you got any friends that are close to her (particularly girls)

just have them talk about you with her and see if she likes you. Save you a lot of time

 

[the_pleasure_is_mine]

Just do it O_O NOW BOY NOW

 

[SnootyEnglishman]

Dude it happens. Just find a way to gain the confidence within and just ask her if she says "yes" that's good if she says "no" sure it may hurt but at least you'll feel a little better knowing you asked.

 

[Daveman]

Then don't. We all die alone in the end so what difference does it make.

 

[Thisshouldsay2K]

Just ask her out. What's the worst that happens, she says no? Then you just move on, no big deal.

 

[teutonicman]

Be like Tiger and just DO IT! It'll help put hair on your face.

 

[teutonicman]

Then don't. We all die alone in the end so what difference does it make.

Wait what about those who die screwing?

 

[Fusoiya]

Then don't. We all die alone in the end so what difference does it make.

That's some harsh truth you got going there :<

Anyways what I always say is, If the person you like doesn't appear to care enuff for you to ignore you when you ask her out/speak with her, then that person doesn't deserve your affection.

 

[AmrasCalmacil]

Then don't. We all die alone in the end so what difference does it make.

I'm not dead yet, why the fuck should I, or anyone else, live alone?

I can't give you advice but I can give you a reason.
Is she single? 'cause if you see her in a weeks time with some guy on her arm you are going to kick yourself and scream 'That could have been me!'

Trust me, I know.

 

[Harkonnen64]

Allow the universe to resolve it... that's what I do whenever the garbage needs taking out, and someone usually ends up doing it for me.

 

[Hollock]

as someone who has asked one and only one girl out and got rejected, I can tell you that it's not that bad.

 

[Tharwen]

Never be afraid of the consequences of this sort of thing. Can you actually remember a good example of a time when the fears you had before you tried something came true?

I certainly can't. Also, the only way to get better at talking to people is through practice at this sort of thing.

 

[Sightless Wisdom]

Just do it. There's my advice, it will be better to do it now than wait a long time building anticipation for the moment. Things usually turn out better than you think they will.

 

[Furious Styles]

just do it, the longer you wait the worse it gets

 

[Calhoun347]

Sack up, and just do it.

Worst case scenario: You get rejected, you feel a little sad for a while and then you get right back up on the horse.

 

[Timotei]

I need advice but nothing seems to be working

EDIT: I'm 15.

Be confident and assured about yourself.

We don't mind an initial nervous reaction and at times is can be welcomed, however you need to be sure get a grip on things and let a subtle assertiveness take over fast before you are marked as overly-timid.

Be charming and polite as well. I cannot stress those two enough, especially the latter.

At least this is how things were for me. Just at least consider my advice having been the other side of the fence.

EDIT: Also, don't fear rejection. Focus not on the chances of failure as mush as the prospects of success.