krazykidd said:
There is no such thing as friendzoned . People need to man up and stop being afraid of rejection. Ask a girl out . 50/50 chance she says yes . If she says no , move on. How is this so hard? I swear i have never heard so much "friendzone" talk, than on this site . Guys are turning into wimps.
Except it is a thing, it's what girls whip out when they want to continue nagging you for favors because you're smarter than they are, but they don't want to put out to put it in the most blunt terms.
To put it in more realistic and less vulgar terms. I HAVE asked girls out, unafraid of the rejection, to which I get the reply "Oh... W-Well I like you... But as a friend... You're like a brother to me. I'm sorry, you'll be great to find anyone, you're such a sweet guy."
I wasn't looking to marry you I was just looking to take you out for dinner, how will you even know how you like me if you never bothered to get to know?
Then of course not even 2 weeks later "Hey my computer isn't working right, would you mind coming over to fix it?"
This is the point where I get ticked and tell them to screw off, I gave them a chance and they took the walking jockstrap that can't even get a G.E.D. (let alone spell "G.E.D.")
And there's the pattern of that.
They don't want to even get remotely intimate with a guy because they don't find him attractive (or something else I don't know of) but continue to want favors from him because he's successful.
It's a cruel fate, but I guess girls that friend-zone are just one [explicit] away from being gold-diggers ;P
(I'm happily in a relationship now I might add I just feel a personal story will clear up the "friend zone" nonsense and how people who haven't experienced it first hand tend to presume it just mean you keep telling her how pretty she is but never actually ask her out)
EDIT: This should not sound NEAR that whiny or personal. I mean it is a personal story but that's just for reference, not just fabricated from nonsense. Still sorry if it comes off as complain'y. Just late at night and I'm trying to finish the wiring of my costume.