Wait, I am hearing conflicting things. What I know is that the term refers presently not to people whose women cheated on them but to those who like it for women to cheat on them. Wether they are in a relationship or not doesn't matter.
Also, in my understanding, the term is not used literally but rather metaphorically, to indicate that someone is taking pleasure in being betrayed or that someone would gladly sell out his own.
Nowhere in this is there a mention of the woman's desire. Maybe she doesn't wish to cheat but does it for her man's sake to keep him, which would suck for her. That's what springs to mind when the term is leavied as an insult. As for the racial aspect, that is even more confusing. No matter what race, cheating is cheating, unless you're the KKK or something lol. And they would mind interracial relationships even without the infidelity component.
Also, in my understanding, the term is not used literally but rather metaphorically, to indicate that someone is taking pleasure in being betrayed or that someone would gladly sell out his own.
Nowhere in this is there a mention of the woman's desire. Maybe she doesn't wish to cheat but does it for her man's sake to keep him, which would suck for her. That's what springs to mind when the term is leavied as an insult. As for the racial aspect, that is even more confusing. No matter what race, cheating is cheating, unless you're the KKK or something lol. And they would mind interracial relationships even without the infidelity component.