It's really not just nerds. Hell people point to nerds a lot to claim they're Toxic but it's worth pointing out.I didn't say I was talking about only the fans who want the snider cut. I just said fans in general can be toxic, which they can be. And yes I know we don't know the story, which is why i covered my statement with "this is speculation" warnings. But it's not out of the realm of possibility, given we have documented cases (one just a week ago of a female wrestler on some reality tv show) of people being driven to suicide due to social media harassment, and we know teenagers are especially susceptible to it, and we know that nerds can be incredibly hostile to people they think had any connection to something they feel was "ruined". All 3 of those being together in one situation isn't that big of a stretch to me. Again, I don't know it for sure, but considering OTHER people in similar nerd franchises, were harrassed to the point of near suicide and social isolation/mental instability, it's hardly a crazy speculation.
Shippers have so far:
Caused the Star Wars social media manager to leave social media on their personal account because of Reylos harassing them
Sent Death Threats to the makers of the new Voltron series for not making the ship they wanted cannon.
Sent threats to Rose Leslie (Wife of Kit Harrington) because they wanted to make Kit and Emilia Clare (plays Daenerys) a real life couple
Been accused of sending racial abuse to Candice Patton (Plays Iris West on The Flash).
Twilight fans harassed and sent death threats Kirsten Stewart after she cheated on Robert Pattinson
And this is just what we know of
Other incidents worthy of note not from shippers:
The Steven Universe fandom threatening and harassing an artist to suicide for drawing a character too thin