Yeah, it's always bothered me that the male problems are generally only saved as ammo for "special occasions" like any problem concerning women. Not just feminism, and stuff, but representation, and when they try and do something. Basically any time anyone ever complains about anything related to women. I see it a lot when the issue of women's representation in videogames pops up. I've seen it get so bad as to totally derail things.
If it really bothers them, they should do something about it. There's gotta be a breaking point where the people who refuse to complain can't take it anymore, and will actually try to solve their problems.
What? Do they want the vocal people to champion them and ignore their own problems, or something?
As much as I hate it, people can't fight on every front and solve every problem all at once. It takes passion, and intensity to really help the fight, and that's generally reserved to what's near and dear to them.
In the long run, it's possible that solving the problem the complainers have might have a ripple effect, and solve male problems, but people are short sighted, maybe?
It's also kinda hard to fight for people that really wouldn't do the same, or worse, be part of the problem in fighting the process in the first place.
It's not like we don't care about other problems, it's that we feel we have key issues to deal with first.
One problem doesn't counter the other, either. It doesn't make it go away or be any less important.
Maybe there's jealousy involved towards the vocal people that can at least speak up about their own problems without having to jump on others complaining about their own problems? That these talks persist despite the sort of stuff that generally seems to shut down male problems?
The internet is an ideal place to talk about it, and like a lot of the people complaining about women problems, people concerned with male problems must be persistent, and strong, and keep at it as well. They can't let themselves be shut down. I mean it's a universal problem. People try to shut down concerns over women's issues a lot, but that doesn't really stop people from talking about them, so why should it be any different for male problems?
/sleepy rant