Male, we have on average 10 cats walking around the house. How many there actually are depends on weather or not one of them has kittens. As I write this, our 4 month's old kitten is sleeping on my lap. Her sister and brother already have their own families.
I cannot really speak for most people, since as long as I have lived (a mere 19 years mind you) there have been cats in this household. But I do get surprised looks when I mention the amount of cats that walk about.
I do think that having more than 2 cats is a bit out of the ordinary, but I can't really understand why a male would not like cats.
Most have been said, but as addition, I am not homo-sexual and I do not think that what kind of pet you have is any reflection as to where your sexual preferences lie. o_0 Sounds rather weird really.