Jazoni89 said:
Metal music, in our teen years it was our bread and butter, but getting older me and countless others branched out to various genre's, and gone was the stigma of listening to various different music that plagued me in my teen years.
I used to be a huge metal fan when I was a teenager at college, i hanged out with the cool metal guys and we all shared our songs, but then time went by, and metal started to wear thin on me and i started branching out alot more to various genres, and music that i couldn't stand a few years back, i was listening to.
Now at the age of 21, metal has disappeared completely out of my mind, and in retrospect i think metal was just a way for us younger minds to be edgy, and cool, and to rebel against mainstream music.
So i've got a question for all you 20 somethings, has metal music weared thin as you go older, or are you still a die hard metaller for life, please tell me what you think.
Based on my own experiences, I find that a rather amusing supposition, and one I'm not much inclined to agree with. See, I didn't
start listening to Metal until I was 26 (2009 in other words) - my formative years were spent primarily listening to classical music, with the odd folk, jazz, or CCM courtesy of my respective parents, and a
very small sampling of modern rock. I was never someone you talked to about music or "into bands" that other people liked, because I loathed (and continue to loathe) the lion's share of music produced over the last century; growing up I was always happy to regale captive audiences about how much whatever they liked sucked and why Pop was banal crap (still true now!).
It wasn't until I was finally tempted to muck about with the Music Genome Project's front end Pandora [http://www.pandora.com] that my listening habits substantially shifted, and my unbridled enthusiasm for Canadian folk/pop musician Sarah McLachlan is in fact the only reason I'm a Metal apologist today; knowing my own background on the subject, I get a lot of wry amusement when people here suggest I'm a "resident expert" on the topic of obscure (yet approachable) Metal, considering I didn't know the first thing about it just 3 years back. I suppose that's the advantage of mild OCD and a passion for trivia, heh.
So childhood peer bonding and 'rebellion' might indeed have a lot to do with why a lot of people
here like Metal (since the demographics of the Escapist skew quite sharply towards the "still in high school" side of the scale), and most of what music theorists would term "Modern Metal" is the sort of music that I'm convinced people only like because they're kids and kids like stupid aggressive noisy
crap, but the folks like me who didn't grow up listening to Metal, knew no one who did, and didn't give a crap about what other people liked in the first place (except to wish heartily that we could selectively turn off our ability to hear things when subjected to that music)... well you can't very well suggest that our age has anything to do with our fondness for the genre.
No, we like it because it's
good - or at least there is a lot of music under the broad umbrella of Metal that is good; I would never simply suggest that all Metal is praiseworthy because I know what some of those sub-genres sound like (ha ha!). It says a lot when someone like me with a background almost exclusively grounded in classical (from the late Romantic Period for preference) is compelled to say nice things about, and indeed,
actively champion Rock's more aggressive(ly awesome) progeny; the persistent notion that "only kids like Metal", which goes hand in hand with the often unspoken corollary "kids are
bloody stupid", is quite simply erroneous and denigrating to the medium. Consequently it is one I take every opportunity I get to dispel, as best I can - take it from someone who has introduced Melodic Power Metal to moms in their 40s: Metal may have a 'primary demographic' that consists mainly of young men, but appreciation for the medium is certainly not simply a facet of the audiences age, gender, and background.
That you've moved away from Metal as you've matured says more about the grounding basis of your original interest in the genre than it does about Metal itself. No one should ever feel embarrassed to still be listening to Metal in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s[footnote]I got my father to
start listening to Metal in his 50s.[/footnote], etc, so long as the Metal they're listening to is
good. It's when you get get to be my age and you're still enamored with say...
Linkin Park that we'll start mocking you, heh.