Moral discussion: would you?

[Farther than stars]

Hmm....
Alright, I'm not sure, but how about a reverse question?
You and your brother/sister are adopted from different families, and at some point in your lives (when you are both of age), he/she suggests "relations", how do you react?
Personally, even if he/she isn't related by blood, they were raised as brother and sister, so therefore it's still kind of wrong (that's my opinion of my situation, I'm still stumped on the original).

Unlikely to happen because of the Oedipus complex, but for aforementioned reasons, still cool with.

Now if you don't mind, I'm going to cause some form of bodily harm for mentioning the work of Freud in a serious manner.

Yes, but you're forgetting that Oedipus complex only theoretically applies in a situation where pheromones are produced by someone of a similar genetic composition. In this case that still wouldn't be true.

I'm referring to not feeling attraction to those you've known since your 4 or younger, distinctly possible I've mentioned the wrong freudian idea here.

No, you have the right "idea", but I'm pointing out that it's just that: an idea, a theory - something for which there's not enough fundamental research concerning biological factors to prove its relevance.

 

[Griffolion]

I personally wouldn't to be honest. I think a little restraint and keeping the family in order is better than having sex with a step-relation and running the risk of pregnancy/STI's (I mean, I don't know where she's been) and just general awkwardness and probable blowout if/when we are caught.

I won't call it wrong or anything like that, if someone else wants to do it, that's their choice, but I personally just wouldn't for those reasons.

 

[Scarim Coral]

No I don't do "incest" eventhough we are not blood related and no matter how hot she is (even with my moral standards if she is super hot than it would be hard on me due to never had a girlfriend but I stand on my words). I will be her step brother and nothing more than that. Beside with the scenerio with me being 17 I would be underage to even make a move on her.

 

[Richardplex]

Hmm....
Alright, I'm not sure, but how about a reverse question?
You and your brother/sister are adopted from different families, and at some point in your lives (when you are both of age), he/she suggests "relations", how do you react?
Personally, even if he/she isn't related by blood, they were raised as brother and sister, so therefore it's still kind of wrong (that's my opinion of my situation, I'm still stumped on the original).

Unlikely to happen because of the Oedipus complex, but for aforementioned reasons, still cool with.

Now if you don't mind, I'm going to cause some form of bodily harm for mentioning the work of Freud in a serious manner.

Yes, but you're forgetting that Oedipus complex only theoretically applies in a situation where pheromones are produced by someone of a similar genetic composition. In this case that still wouldn't be true.

I'm referring to not feeling attraction to those you've known since your 4 or younger, distinctly possible I've mentioned the wrong freudian idea here.

No, you have the right "idea", but I'm pointing out that it's just that: an idea, a theory - something for which there's not enough fundamental research concerning biological factors to prove its relevance.

Fair enough, that allows to me to not mention Freud positively, so that's a plus. Unlikely ever to be proven either, considering the way to do so would be.... ethically debatable.

 

[Patrick Dare]

Who cares? They aren't blood related to you and even if they were really the only moral grounds not to have sex with someone blood related to you is that if you had kids they might have problems (so really no kids and it should be fine though not socially acceptable).

 

[Grabbin Keelz]

I say "tread painstakingly carefully". Depending on your society's and families' cultures and social mores, if discovered you (both) risk being subjected to anything from a slap on the wrist for being secretive about the relationship, to being completely excommunicated from the families.

You know, I'm not too far from this scenario.

Half cousin, two years younger and quite attractive.

The answer: no

I'm sorry, but I have to ask: what in the world is a "half cousin"?

My uncle had an affair.

 

[Zykon TheLich]

At 17? If I found them

 

[Hedonist]

Have you ever seen the movie "Cruel Intentions"?
If you even think this is a dilemma, you should consider watching that movie.

 

[PurplePlatypus]

It seems too awkward and I see too much potential for it to blow up in my/our face one way or the other so probably no.

 

[enistoja]

It's happened before, as long as it's not a blood relative, it's a valid relationship. I'd rather make sure she's the one I'd want to be with first, ebcause if manure hits the ventilation system, it's going to be an awkward couple of months until I move out...

 

[squeekenator]

HELL no. I have step-siblings, and they're no different to the regular kind.

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

Depends on my mindset. If my parents were divorced, I'd most likely be dead. But by the off chance i'm not, hmm...

It depends on there personality, though it would be very, very wierd... very wierd.

 

[GLo Jones]

Hells yes. Sounds pretty hot, and I doubt it'd be that hard to hide from the rest of the family.

In my opinion, it's just a far too convenient and attractive situation to pass up.

 

[Axelhander]

Don't see a problem. That's because they're isn't one. <-- Not opinion.

 

[smurf_you]

I have no problem with actual incest (so long as no procreation involved) so yes, I'd hit that. No one is harmed, no one is inconvenienced, no-one has the right to call it wrong.

pretty much this actually..... If I had had a hot sibling I probably would have tapped that :3 (Only child here so I can't really say)

(captcha: turela forthwith)

 

[loc978]

When I was 17? I wouldn't have had the will to say no, really. I would have had enough to put it off long enough to acquire condoms, though... and I did have a car and money at that point...

 

[Marsell]

Sure, I'd hit it. Not incest so why not?

 

[pixiejedi]

Eeeeeh, no. I have both blood and step siblings and regardless of our ages I would never do that nor would I hope they would do that. Families tend to have a lot of drama, especially blended ones. As someone who comes from a home where calling the cops because an ex-husband is beating down the door threatening to kill you is typical for Christmas, I would really not want to complicate matters any more.

 

[Pierce Graham]

If they're not related, I've got no problem. Blood-related, I would say no.

 

[hazabaza1]

No, because I can control my penis. Just because something looks good doesn't mean I'll go around fucking it whatever chance I get.