I don't know about her being unattractive, for her age she certainly takes care of herself. I don't think calling her ugly does anything but vindicate her opinions.
I don't think anyone should be attacking her for thinking she's attractive, if anything, more women should think like that.
My problem with her is that she seems to use free things men have given her as a way of validating her self-worth and refuses to believe that any of the negative things that happen to her with her friends and at work is due to anything other than jealously. Don't get me wrong, some people are resentful of others with the type of self-confidence she has but I doubt that all the things she thinks she has been denied don't rest, at least partly, on her actions rather than her looks.
She needs to snap out of that victim mentality and stop believing 'it's not my fault I'm pretty and you're not'. She complains that all women are jealous and hate her but, to be honest, if you approach a group of people with the attitude that they're not going to like you because you're so beautiful and they'll be afraid that their husbands will want to fuck you then, chances are, you're not going to make the best impression.
I don't think anyone should be attacking her for thinking she's attractive, if anything, more women should think like that.
My problem with her is that she seems to use free things men have given her as a way of validating her self-worth and refuses to believe that any of the negative things that happen to her with her friends and at work is due to anything other than jealously. Don't get me wrong, some people are resentful of others with the type of self-confidence she has but I doubt that all the things she thinks she has been denied don't rest, at least partly, on her actions rather than her looks.
She needs to snap out of that victim mentality and stop believing 'it's not my fault I'm pretty and you're not'. She complains that all women are jealous and hate her but, to be honest, if you approach a group of people with the attitude that they're not going to like you because you're so beautiful and they'll be afraid that their husbands will want to fuck you then, chances are, you're not going to make the best impression.