I don't really see any reason whatsoever to give a damn. People can do what the hell ever they want as long as they aren't risking their or other peoples lifes. That's my personal point of view.
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Well, sexuality is one of the things I like to know about a person, just to know it. -Shrug-
But it's not like it matters that much anyway, in general. I'm having some issues deciding my own currently, so for me, it matters. >_>
But it's not like it matters that much anyway, in general. I'm having some issues deciding my own currently, so for me, it matters. >_>
A persons sexuality does not change the person. Its their choice. My philosophy, if you don't get up in my face I won't get up in yours.
It's not a choice, but I'm not getting in an argument about this again, all I know is all the evidence I've seen and my own experience tells me it isn't a choice. But the rest of your post I agree with, so long as it doesn't affect me, I don't particularly care.Magicmad5511 said:
Hi. I'm somebody who has SPD (Schizoid Personality Disorder). I'm a complete "loner" in layman's terms, i do not seek human contact whatsoever and suffer anxiety attacks whenever i'm placed in stressful situations outside of my isolation and comfort zone. It's difficult for me to form friendships and relationships because of this, but also because i have zero genuine interest in doing so. I do not show much emotion towards people in communication and am genuinely very indifferent to a lot of the things said to me, whether it be praise or criticism. I am most comfortable by myself doing solitary activities. I do have friends, i have tried to make the effort, but i am nearly always uncomfortable when doing so. People with SPD tend to be sexually uninterested. This is because intimacy is very uncomfortable and difficult for us, both physically and mentally. Physically - it feels like an invasion of our 'personal space' and makes us grossly uncomfortable. Mentally because we are unable to properly emotionally connect with our partner and that can cause a lot of difficulties. Because we do not desire nor look for human contact, it also means we don't have the need for a partner because of the aforementioned. We just prefer to be on our own. This means people with SPD tend to be asexual because they are not interested in any sort of physical or emotional intimacy.AccursedTheory said:
To cap this off, if we go by the "boys want to marry their mothers, girls want to marry their fathers" idea, i absolutely do not and never have respected my mother simply for her lack of intelligence and self-respect. This is reinforced by my father who calls her "darling" like one would call a spaniel to heel rather than a term of endearment. Neither my mother nor my father believe in 'love'. They also believe sex to be something to be ashamed of and i never had "the talk" with my father simply because they found it too embarrassing. If anything lewd came on the TV, it had to go off again because it made them uncomfortable. They have the mentality of 1950. To add on top of that, i have lot of dissonance with the male culture - i absolutely hate it. I hate the expectations of men and i hate the generally shallow, brusque and up-front nature of men, which is something my father reinforced. The other day my mother went on about me finding a partner, to which i said "It's really not important to me. I'm perfectly happy on my own and don't feel the need for a "partner" of any sort" to which she went on about how "men without partners turn into weirdos". Nice.
I haven't "decided" i'm an asexual yet. But given all of the above, and the fact i'm a 20 year old virgin who hasn't exactly bothered to look for a relationship of any description and no real interest in casual sex (honestly, i just don't see why having sex is a status symbol) it's not exactly looking like anything else right now. I urge you to reconsider your stance next time and be a little bit less inconsiderate. I took offense.
As long as someone obeys the restrictions given to them by their lifestyle choice I have no problem at all.
Up to including marriage, but as soon as children get involved I personally think it is a hypocrisy; and concern myself for the child as it is impossible to achieve the same balance of a conventional relationship.
A preemptive strike: I expect many will fire at me about abusive households, single parenthoods , need for IVF even and so forth whilst forgetting that this shortfall can happen on homosexual adoption also.
Whilst I would like each of these undesirable elements to be rendered impossible for the upbringing of children - it isn't and thus keep my opinions to myself in the real world.
Up to including marriage, but as soon as children get involved I personally think it is a hypocrisy; and concern myself for the child as it is impossible to achieve the same balance of a conventional relationship.
A preemptive strike: I expect many will fire at me about abusive households, single parenthoods , need for IVF even and so forth whilst forgetting that this shortfall can happen on homosexual adoption also.
Whilst I would like each of these undesirable elements to be rendered impossible for the upbringing of children - it isn't and thus keep my opinions to myself in the real world.
I'm sorry.Gralian said:
Didn't realize some people here didn't have a concept of what 'percent' means.
I'll explain: 90% is 9/10. As in, 9/10 people who claim to be asexual are full of shit (Of course, I have no idea if 90% is completely accurate, merely an estimation).
If you are part of the 1/10 people that genuinely, and truly, have absolutely no urge or care for sex, then all the power to you. I wasn't referring to you.
Ever hear of Pareto's Principle? It's the 80-20 rule; that 80% of something comes from 20% of something else. Now use it in conjunction with your claim.AccursedTheory said:
According to wikipedia, "One commonly cited study placed the prevalence of asexuality at 1%.[8]".
So think about what you are saying. 90% of 1% are bullshitting. So you are, in effect, claiming that 0.1% are actually asexual. Unless of course you are claiming that it's more like 10% who "claim" to be asexual but it's only the 1% that genuinely are. Regardless, you are in no position whatsoever to make such a baseless claim yourself.
It's no different to people claiming that homosexuality is a choice, because it is an utterly baseless claim based on their own personal opinion.
My opinion is that you kids think way too much about this when really its a trivial and perfunctory subject.
get over it. And get of my lawn whilst you're at it!! ;-)
get over it. And get of my lawn whilst you're at it!! ;-)
I am yet to meet a straight women, they all seem to either say there bisexual or have kissed a girl (and I liked it, the taste of her cherry chapstick).
I think a lot of "bisexuals" are actually attention junkies. Girls/women need to realize straight = doing stuff with guys, that includes kissing. It doesn't mean "I will have sex with men but I can make out with other females".
I kind of had to come up with a radical point of view to sort of prevent a massive circle agreement of "no matter who you like your cool". It doesn't really lead to discussion.
I think a lot of "bisexuals" are actually attention junkies. Girls/women need to realize straight = doing stuff with guys, that includes kissing. It doesn't mean "I will have sex with men but I can make out with other females".
I kind of had to come up with a radical point of view to sort of prevent a massive circle agreement of "no matter who you like your cool". It doesn't really lead to discussion.
I respect but will never understand exclusive sexuality. (I'm looking you straights, gays, and lesbians). While sexuality isn't easily controlled and has deep psychological roots. But it seems like bisexuality is more or less the happy medium between everything.
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wow, this is one of the stupidest things Ive seen on the site at all, but considering that it was made from a new account I have a feeling its just trolling but here is a link (warning, has animal wangs, apparently)Kaz Helberd said:
So long ans you keep it to where it belongs, e.g. Talking about sex in places where people talk about sex. I don't really care. If your happy then you continue doing what makes you happy.