No, I selflessly take you up on your offer, putting aside any desires I may have had on the matter without argument because to do so would be so very selfishly rude of me to just take your offer and reject it out of hand as if were not honestly intended. I'd be being a fucking saint, akin to Mother Teresa at her very best, but sometimes you must cast your own desires aside and suffer for the good of others.manic_depressive13 said:But therein lies the dilemma. Do you selflessly refuse to argue and selfishly let me foot the bill? Or do you selfishly make a fuss for the selfless reason of trying to save me money? It doesn't matter which you choose. The important thing is that you at least made the offer.SecondPrize said:But that's not selfish at all. If we were to go out for lunch and you absolutely insist on grabbing the check, then by declining to argue about it if I instead give you what you wanted then I'm being quite selfless.