Poll: Are you Homosexual?

[ViolentlyHappy91]

Oh god, it's THIS thread again. I really don't see why sexual orientation matters, gay, bi, straight, tran, it's all the same to me, I really don't care what your sexual orientation is, because it doesn't change who you are. I've never revealed my orientation, solely because it doesn't matter, and I'm a member of The Escapist Gay-mers [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/groups/view/The-Escapist-Gay-mers]. I just don't tell people, you can make up your own mind on what you think I am.

 

[PlagueRat]

I'm gay. I have been since college. Didn't really think about it in high school. Most people don't realize I am until I tell them. Hell, one of my jobs, the production guys kept asking me when I was getting a girlfriend and why I hadn't looked for one. You'd think after 3 months of the question they'd get a hint, but I didn't say anything because the company didn't have the protection for gay rights.

 

[Maverick Siragusa]

just one question, how can you be asexual?

unless some of the people that post here are fungus

 

[Sleekgiant]

Oh god, it's THIS thread again. I really don't see why sexual orientation matters, gay, bi, straight, tran, it's all the same to me, I really don't care what your sexual orientation is, because it doesn't change who you are. I've never revealed my orientation, solely because it doesn't matter, and I'm a member of The Escapist Gay-mers [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/groups/view/The-Escapist-Gay-mers]. I just don't tell people, you can make up your own mind on what you think I am.

Well I think you are awesome

Also is it just me or is the thread title as bad as it gets

 

[superbatranger]

Well that is a rather bad title for this

OT I'm gay and happy about it

Hey, you're right! The title could have been more carefully worded.

I'm straight, and I don't care what your sexual orientation is. If you're a cool person, I'll be your friend. In the end, we're all just people.

 

[Scde2]

Oh god, it's THIS thread again. I really don't see why sexual orientation matters, gay, bi, straight, tran, it's all the same to me, I really don't care what your sexual orientation is, because it doesn't change who you are. I've never revealed my orientation, solely because it doesn't matter, and I'm a member of The Escapist Gay-mers [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/groups/view/The-Escapist-Gay-mers]. I just don't tell people, you can make up your own mind on what you think I am.

Well I think you are awesome

Also is it just me or is the thread title as bad as it gets

I agree about the thread title...

 

[ViolentlyHappy91]

Well I think you are awesome

Also is it just me or is the thread title as bad as it gets

Thanks Sleek . This thread used to pop up ever 2 or 3 months, and it always had a few fights in it.

 

[SextusMaximus]

Straight... it's interesting to see how many Bisexuals there are on the site though, didn't expect so many.

 

[Sleekgiant]

I agree about the thread title...

We should burn it >

Well I think you are awesome

Also is it just me or is the thread title as bad as it gets

Thanks Sleek . This thread used to pop up ever 2 or 3 months, and it always had a few fights in it.

It popped up in February and wasn't to pretty, it comes about as often as Furry threads : /

 

[Yureina]

Asexual. I guess i'd be straight if I was into this stuff though.

Impossible to tell. It's not like you get to choose.

I'm not sure what you mean.

I mean, it's impossible to tell whether or not your brain would be calibrated 'homosexual' or 'heterosexual'.

Maybe so. Thing is, I said 'asexual' to reflect a personal lack of interest. I have a good idea what my interests would be if I actually did care about this stuff, but... I don't. Not now.

 

[atalanta]

I'm bisexual. It's pretty okay.

I love that people keep on posting "I'm straight, nothing against gay people" as if being straight would normally make you homophobic.

I noticed this too. It's making me kind of twitchy, actually.

I love the misconceptions that if you're bi, you MUST be with a member of each sex at least once in your life, or that you desperately want a threesome, or that you need guyz on the side, or that you're always horny, or that you'd bang anything that walks. Fuck that. I'm a bigot; I have high standards on both sides.

Preach it, brother. Bi != easy.

 

[ViolentlyHappy91]

We should burn it >
It popped up in February and wasn't to pretty, it comes about as often as Furry threads : /

Yeah, I can see it going too well when it's posted...and we shouldn't burn it, we should just kind of turn out backs and pretend it never existed. *walks away, never to return to this thread*

 

[QuickDEMOL1SHER]

Put in a "Not sure, but don't care either way" option.

 

[Icehearted]

Sometimes I'd think it's be easier if I weren't straight, since at least I can understand men. Women are hard mode, and unless someone releases a good faq I think it's going to be bumpy for the rest of my romantic life.

"The good thing about being bisexual is that it doubles your chance of a date on a Saturday night." -Woody Allen

 

[bearlynormal]

I think I'd say I'm both ways, I lean more on the gay side of things but I don't push it on people. No point to, I don't get why some do though.

 

[Kiju]

Bisexual. Mainly figured it out when I started looking through swimsuit catalogs and drooling over both the guys and the girls.

B'sides, I prefer not being the one who 'wears the pants', as the saying goes. I much prefer skirts. ^^

 

[Sporky111]

just one question, how can you be asexual?

unless some of the people that post here are fungus

Asexual means that you don't engage in any sexual activity. It can be that you're not attracted to either sex, or that you don't have a sex drive or have a weak sex drive, or for personal reasons I believe.

 

[||XIII]

I suppose I'm unsure. I do only have experience with women, but I'm not appalled by the thought of fooling around with a guy, then again, I'm definitely not drawn towards the macho.

Edit: Coming to think of it, I don't like girly girls either, so I guess I'm into whatever is centered around the middle.

 

[Skeleton Jelly]

I'm straight with a slight bit of bi-curiosity.

I don't mind doing a lot of things with guys. But anything to do sexually down there is just something I find repulsive. Also, the guy is gay, I'm a lot less open. It's basically cheating since I have a girlfriend.

 

[atalanta]

im bi-sexual and love the freedom it provides me which is well worth the hate levelled at me by people who don't understand

what hate are you talking about? Is it really more noteworthy than other supposedly hated people (minorities, ideological groups, etc.)? Is it as noteworthy? Why do you think people "hate" you and your identity so much?

Not trying to argue or attack, just interested in what you have to say.

You'd be surprised, actually. A lot of people don't really believe bisexuality is a valid sexual orientation, and that you ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO BE one or the other -- for instance, there's a common misconception that bisexuality is that awkward phase you go through before you come out as properly gay. There are also a couple of nasty stereotypes about bi people, especially bi women -- that they're only bi in college, or bi only because their partners think it's hot, or bi because they're huge sluts, or whatever.

As such, bisexuals often end up being too gay for the straight people, and too straight for the gay people -- we're simultaneously filthy perverts wrecking the moral fibre of society, while also being cowardly sell-outs who are too busy reaping the benefits of being straight to care about the plight of our fellow GLTQA's