Spot1990 said:
It really has to be done. Personally I just don't think your life's complete if you don't have any stupid shit to look back on and think "WTF was I playing at?"
Aha! I'm giving up on this thread because of the rapid devolution but I think this is both funny, true and key. I'm the child of (mother) a recovering alcoholic and (father) a wine connoisseur. I definitely went through a "oh my god alcohol is evil you are evil if you drink!" phase. Adult children of alcoholics have their own special issues with alcohol... But those are personal issues that can't be projected onto others who are not in the same situation!
BUT! I am an adult (at least twice the age of a good number of y'all, just to out myself) and I have had alcohol once (to be polite when someone made their own wine and I was 15 years old) and I am living high on the hog without it and see no need for it in my future. My sister, older than I, is just the same. Both of us live with partners who drink responsibly. Gray area much?
Instead of comparing alcohol to poison (it is, in certain forms, both poison and nourishment) let's compare it to dog ownership ie: something that can be super fun, part of a cool lifestyle, annoying, dangerous, reasonably decided against or ignored completely...
Responsible/Connoisseur Drinkers = People who love dogs. Spend tons of time with dogs. OWN dogs. They pick up poop, they pay for vet bills and have other potentially annoying stuff to deal with. But hey, they've got a nice doggy friend! They might even breed dogs or go to dog shows. Good for them. Cool hobby/lifestyle!
Alcoholics/Irresponsible Drinker = Dog hoarders. They cannot control the number of dogs in their life. They cannot care for the dogs. The dogs are causing them, their family, their environment & their community harm, possibly even death. Maybe they train these dogs to fight. It's all part of issues of mental illness and in some ways has nothing to do with the dogs... dogs are just the way the illness is expressed.
Non-Drinkers = People who have never owned a dog. Never want to own a dog. Maybe they fear dogs. Maybe they love dogs but they're allergic. Maybe they live in a place where they can't have them or they're too poor to afford a dog. Maybe their grandpa was killed by a dog. Or guess what... maybe they've seen the negative aspects of dog ownership (even if it is JUST picking up dog poop), compared them to the positive aspects (BEST FRIEND!) and made a choice that dog ownership is not for them. Just the way one might choose not to live in the city or ski, even if you'd NEVER tried it.
I want to stand as living, grown-up proof that life without a dog... er... alcohol, even if you don't ever try it JUST ONCE can be a pretty smegging awesome life. I'm a successful artist in a successful long term relationship doing work I love, supporting myself and having tons of fun EVEN though I've lived a sober life. And I have SO MUCH STUPID SHIT to look back on (can't blame it on the booze!) I could fill a book.
Then again, my Dad & some of my best friends are cool, responsible drinkers and connoisseurs & I like to discuss booze with them and educate myself. I find beer in particular to be a fascinating topic... it changed the world!
Anyway... Go Escapist Off-Topic forums for getting me on my edumacational soap box again!