Lost it to Aerosmith, while having sex with a girl. I remember the Aerosmith more fondly than the girl.
So, what's stoping you?canadamus_prime said:What he said. As I'm now 29, being reminded is quite painful.RAKtheUndead said:No, I haven't lost my fucking virginity.
Stop reminding me about it.
I trust myself completely and I know how it works. Yes, it doesn't involve sex drive but I've met guys who have gone through it and read about it to and they usually have lost any desire for sex (as quoted by them and their wives if they have one). It usually does kill sex drive from what I have seen so if I did go celibate, I would want my sex drive gone. But you're right it is psychological, so then what would physically remove sex drive? If it involves cutting off my man parts entirely then I think I'll just stick with a vasectomy (IF I did go celibate; I haven't given up yet)NezumiiroKitsune said:You either don't know how a vasectomy works or you don't trust yourself. A vasectomy usually doesn't affect sexual drive (if it does, it's psychological), just the ability to release sperm. It wouldn't benefit a life of celibacy.DesiPrinceX09 said:Almost 19 and still a virgin, and perfectly fine with it. I've even considered just getting a vasectomy and do life long celibacy, that's how much I don't care. I either want to lose it with a girl I love (and marry) or not at all.
Mr. Google said:if your straight then penis into vagina. if youre gay your first time having a sexual experience going beyond oral sex. if youre a lesbian then your first...oral experience i guess? Lesbians really hard to define
I'm still a "virgin" then. I'm not sure whether that I feel happy or sad.Dags90 said:This forum usually uses pretty heteronormative and male dominated definitions of what constitutes going "all the way". So expect it to involve a penis or a facsimile of a penis going into a hole down south.
I want to know why there's no option for under 13. Shit happens.
You really want to know? Alrighty then. That would be due to a combination of poor social skills, low self-esteem, low self-confidence, lack of any concrete idea what-so-ever on how to go about dating, and personal convictions.Uncreation said:So, what's stoping you?canadamus_prime said:What he said. As I'm now 29, being reminded is quite painful.RAKtheUndead said:No, I haven't lost my fucking virginity.
Stop reminding me about it.
I think you're supposed to be sad, because you're no longer "innocent" but are still a virgin. Personally, I prefer oral sex anyway.latenightapplepie said:I'm still a "virgin" then. I'm not sure whether that I feel happy or sad.
So I'm in some kind of sexual experience limbo? Aw jeez, yeah that does sound pretty crap actually.Dags90 said:I think you're supposed to be sad, because you're no longer "innocent" but are still a virgin.
Why, exactly? Do you simply hate naked having fun before they´ve reached the age where the goverment deems it "appropriate"?RAKtheUndead said:Uncreation said:So, what's stoping you?canadamus_prime said:What he said. As I'm now 29, being reminded is quite painful.RAKtheUndead said:No, I haven't lost my fucking virginity.
Stop reminding me about it.
EDIT: By the way, I think that the 278 people so far who have voted before the age of 18 are morally repugnant and perverted.
Its actually quite a relationship tester for alot of people, some relationships dye off after youve reached that last area (7 out of 9 couples broke up soon after from my experience), so be warned.awesomeClaw said:"Virginity is not a virtue, it is merely a lack of oppurtunity."
So, Escapist, have you lost your virginity? It´s okay, you don´t have to tell, you can vote anonymously in the poll if you´d like!
Me? Well, since i´m thirteen, no. But, to no ones suprise, i want to.
How about you?
Hey there, saw your post and felt compelled to respond. My genuine personal advice to you (that many may disagree with, and would have some vaild points) do not wait untill your married! You want to learn the ropes first, get good and make your wedding night truely magical. Sex is 100% better with someone you love, but is 100% better still if you and your partner are experienced and know what your doing.megascorcher said:So many who have lost their virginity at 14-16... Hardly any virgins leaving responses. Well, I'm 23 and I am still a virgin. I've also never had a girlfriend (or boyfriend), and I have never been kissed. None of which is by choice.
Ever since my late teens I have been told over and over "Don't worry, you will find someone some day" and "Oh, you're a sweet person really, and anyone who eventually will be with you will be lucky to have you".
I sometimes feel very lonely, and quite depressed by having missed out on all kinds of teenage romance. I feel that being involved with a person you like when you're an adult would have a very different feel than the explorative experience of being young and in love, and to be intimate with a teenage crush.
Of course, hopefully that wouldn't matter if I found someone who I truly adored, who would reciprocate those feelings. If I were to have sex I would absolutely prefer it to be with someone I care deeply for, and saving myself for marriage would be very nice... but I would lie if I said I didn't want to have sex.
I would love for people to post their opinions on my situation, even though many of you seem to be younger than me, I wonder what you think of me.