I admitted long ago that the backpack that never leaves my side is my manpurse. I'll say as such to anyone and it doesn't occur to me to be ashamed or fear the judgement of those I tell. Everyone so far has just laughed it off anyway so it's never been a problem. It's not a purse in the strict definition but it serves a similar purpose so I don't avoid the term. That said, I have a separate wallet and the contents of my pack are usually manly stuff like Swiss Army knife, condom, phone charger, umbrella, mouthwash, deodorant, lipchap, etc. You know. The essentials.