Like I said cats don't make mistakes. If they did I wouldn't be a cat person.Nachtmahr said:I like both cats and dogs. I have both. Neither of which have been destructive.Mikeyfell said:An obedient dog? Oh wait that's an oxymoron.
Have no fear dog lover for I am a cat person and so long as you don't put your nicknacks on the edge of something high up, or give a crap that your chair legs are all scratched to shit cats don't make mistakes.
So would you hit your cat to teach it to not do something you find unacceptable? Because it is a misconception that dogs are so dumb hitting is all they understand. There is not a single breed that doesn't learn better from other methods.
And to be on topic, I don't think that hitting children teaches them anything but to obey out of fear for being hit again.
I never implied that hitting is the only thing I would do to a bad dog or bad kid. It's just an important half of the teaching process. when they're being good you reward them. But only when their being good. My friends and parents have dogs and they're terrible dogs because the worst punishment they ever get is the word "No". To a dog that doesn't mean "Never do that again." If they got slapped or kicked they have a tangible consequence for what ever they were doing and if they continue to do that and you continue to punish them they'll be deterred from doing that in the future. If you reward them for being good they'll have a reason to continue to be good. Tangible reward, tangible punishment. Carrot and stick
not carrot or stick.
And um... trying to steer this back on topic. If a kid is old enough to understand your words and they still choose to disobey that has to be beaten out of them.
I mean you're not going to go apeshit and back hand a baby but if they're doing something they shouldn't and words aren't working, yeah hit 'em.